Most women, after approaching you indirectly, if they feel like you've rejected them, they make sure you don't see them anymore. They leave their job or the place where you and them frequent. Many times they fake sickness to leave the place.
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Saturday, October 24, 2015
Friday, October 23, 2015
Staggering Number Of People Who Do This
Eighty percent of adults masturbate or stimulate themselves using toys regularly. Many people watch porno I say this to point out that people are keeping themselves from having actual sex by doing this, they are doing it vicariously. This is keeping people from actually getting out and meeting someone. A big number of people think oral sex is sex. Stop having it indirectly. If you do these stuff, you don't find the motivation from looking for a partner which is harmful for your self esteem, because your ego hurts when you actually don't meet someone in real life.
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What Manipulation Means Psychologically
If you manipulate someone, that means you think you don't deserve that person, or the thing that you want from that person. If you manipulate someone that means you fear that that person is not going to treat you the way you want that person to treat you. Hence, you resort to manipulation.
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Thursday, October 22, 2015
Who You Choose To Marry
Because of evolution you won't date or marry a person who can't help you go up the social ladder. This is true for both sexes on some level. We seldom marry a person who doesn't have the same social status.
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Women Too Get This
For men who don't know this, women too get nocturnal emission or wet dream.
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Don't Have An External Frame Of Reference
Do not take your social status cue, or measure your competence level based on how other judge you or treat you. For example, a person with an external frame of reference might think he's not competent enough because his boss yells at him, or because his coworkers think he's not good enough. First of all, they are just perceptions, which are wrong most of the time. Don't let them define who you are.
Many people feel bad and think something is wrong with them when people treat them wrong. If you continually feel bad when people treat you badly or say something to you, you are letting them define who you are. Most of the time it is them, and they do it unconsciously, so most of the time, their judgement is wrong.
Also, don't feel bad if you suck at your job or something. Many people suck at everything. Failure scars you emotionally, beware of this, and don't let it happen to you. Everyone fails all the time. It could be your brain chemistry; maybe you don't have the same opportunity.
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Men, Don't Project Your Own Negative Image Onto Other Men
Lot of men, when they hear that some other guy has a girlfriend or some girl is crazy for the guy, they automatically say, "IS she fat?" or "IS she unattractive?" or something to that sort. What they are doing is projecting. Only because they don't believe that they can have a pretty girlfriend, they automatically assume the guy can't also have a pretty girlfriend. Even if it is true, what they don't realize is that it makes the guy feel bad because it makes him feel like he is not good enough to have a pretty girl. It is also mean. So, guys be aware how you respond when you hear when someone was loved by some woman. All it matters is that it made the guy happy. It is a form of jealousy. It happens on an unconscious level.
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What Does Looking Away Mean
If you look away AUTOMATICALLY when a “pretty” girl looks at you like she likes you and you actually like the way she looks, that means you feel like she’s not going to listen to you or she’s not going to be compatible with you because she is not going to listen to you. My advice is don't look away. In most primates, mating sequence begins with eye contact. This is true for women too, if they look away that means they also feel this way, that the man is not going to be under her control.
When Testosterone Level Rise In Women
Testosterone level becomes high in women when they fall in love.
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Wednesday, October 21, 2015
Lot Of Women Don't Get This
A very large number of women do not get vaginal orgasm, due to depression, trauma, anxiety disorder,weak libido, not enough foreplay and not enough clitoral stimulation. It could also be psychological. Most men and women depend on vaginal penetration alone to achieve orgasm, and that is not enough for most women because of the duration of the sex. Many women have numb vagina, which Freud referred to as frigidity. Some studies say as many as 50% women don't get vaginal orgasm.
Women's clitoris has eight times more nerve endings than the penis that help women get clitoral orgasm through friction.This info is collected from Dr.Pepper Schwartz's book "The Normal Bar". Most men and women avoid this area during sex due to unawareness or shyness(on the women's part). Ian Kerner, in her book "She Comes First: Thinking Man's Guide To Pleasuring A Woman" says, "Vaginal orgasm doesn't happen without some kind of clitoral stimulation".
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Women's clitoris has eight times more nerve endings than the penis that help women get clitoral orgasm through friction.This info is collected from Dr.Pepper Schwartz's book "The Normal Bar". Most men and women avoid this area during sex due to unawareness or shyness(on the women's part). Ian Kerner, in her book "She Comes First: Thinking Man's Guide To Pleasuring A Woman" says, "Vaginal orgasm doesn't happen without some kind of clitoral stimulation".
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What To Do In This Kind Of Situation
If you see a girl/women after a period of time, and if she doesn't talk to you or doesn't pay attention to do you, don't say "What's the matter, have you forgotten me?", or "You don't remember me?", or something to that effect. This shows neediness. If she really wants you, she will find a way to to talk to you. Also, most women are used to hearing this all the time. So, doing this doesn't set you apart.
This Is Different In Man And Woman
Male talking pattern and female talking patterns are different. I say this because at times they don't understand each other's thinking.
Tuesday, October 20, 2015
Don't Show Off
Don't show off what you have, knowledge, big words, car, brand name clothes, etc. Let people find out on their own. When people find out on their own, that creates a magical effect. They think, you don't brag, that is powerful.
It's Not Love, It's Physical Inferiority
The male likes the female because she is physically smaller. We show empathy to which is smaller than us, much like when we love children.
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Unconscious Fear In The Female
The male physical presence creates fear in the female's unconscious mind because of the male's bigger body size.
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Be Aware Of This, Men
Men, please be aware of the effect that nude imagery, semi-nude imagery, nude videos and porno movies have on you. It keeps you horny all the time. Most makes people think you are sexual. Being Horny all the time is one of the biggest reason for hair loss. Avoid all these.
Monday, October 19, 2015
Sexual Connection Can Be Telepathic
Sexual connection can be telepathic between two people. This is not true for every sexual relationship. This happens, but not always.
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If You Are Not Malleable, People Get Reluctant
If you obstinate, if you talk back a lot with anger, if you have a violent streak, people think they can't change you or shape you. As a result, they hesitate to make a relationship with you, or they leave the relationship. This is true for both men and women.
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Sunday, October 18, 2015
Ladies, Don't Tell This In The Beginning
Lots of women, when meet a man, say that they are lesbians or do something lesbian like in front the man. This makes it obvious that you are into that man. Lots of men realize that and don't feel the motivation to approach.
Don't say too soon that you are a lesbian, this tell the man that you are not actually a lesbian, he realizes that you are using that to entice him.They Are Not "Brothers" Or "Sons"
Women often tell people some men are their "brother" or "son" to hide their sexual attraction toward them.
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Don't Settle To Cure Loneliness
Do not marry someone whom you don't really like, do not settle-marry someone because sooner or later you are going to leave that person, to cure loneliness. It is not fair to that person, it is insulting to that person. If you are knowingly doing this you are an user, and you think you can't make in this world on your own. That makes you a lesser person than the one you are settling with. Settle marriage is bad for both sides. Because when you get divorced, your value lowers, it is harder for you find a partner.
If you settle that automatically means you can't find the "right one" on your own, then you accept to yourself that you are not good enough to find the right one.
If you settle that automatically means you can't find the "right one" on your own, then you accept to yourself that you are not good enough to find the right one.
Saturday, October 17, 2015
Friday, October 16, 2015
This Is Not Love
Extreme control, controlling your partner extremely is not love. That just means you want your partner to do what you want, to help you agenda. Meaning, you don't care about what he wants. This might manifest in the form of "I just want what's good for you" or "I am doing it for your own good" or "You need to be taught a lesson", etc. Using these, a person might constantly harass his partner.
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This Is Why Friendship Somestimes Is Hard
Friendship between the opposite sexes is hard because both side don't want to give off the impression that they are interested in each other.
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Wednesday, October 14, 2015
Attraction Happens Without You Realizing it
You don't choose to be attracted to someone, whether it is emotional or physical. It happens on an unconscious level. One might trigger the other.
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Testicle Health
Your testicles need enough humidity to produce sperm everyday. Low humidity can cause low amount of sperm creation. Humidifier helps.
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Social Media Dating
People are always flirting on the social media. Or hooking up there.
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This Goes Through Many People's Mind
Many people in the beginning of relationship think, "You want to come to be because you want to hurt me or control me". This stem from insecurity.
Tuesday, October 13, 2015
Guys, Don't Say This To Other Men
When a man says to another man, "You can't get it up", this is usually a projection.
Monday, October 12, 2015
Practice Talking Slowly
This, I myself find very hard to do, even though I am trying to do it myself. When, we talk to someone we talk too fast. Too many thoughts too fast bore the human brain. So, in social situations, or when you approach women, practice talking slowly this will make your statements easier for them to understand, and they won't get bored so easily. You won't seem nervous. Talking too fast sometimes is sign of a nervousness. So if you can talk slowly, you won't appear too nervous, you will seem in control. Talking slowly will make you more lucid. This is also good for public speaking, not only when it comes to approaching the opposite sex.
Do Not Wash It!
If you don't wash your crotch before coitus, women like it more because of the pheromones secretion. On the other hand, if you wash it, the pheromones are washed off, and as a result, they won't like your penis as much.
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How Sense Of Humor Gets Destroyed
Anxiety disorder and depression destroy sense of humor in the brain. So if you want to be funny to women or in general fix these, if you have these. In addition you can memorize jokes and try them out in public to see which one works.
Sunday, October 11, 2015
Do Not Make A Relationship Unless You Have This, Men
If you are NOT socially more powerful than the woman, do not make a relationship. Also, women don't like, or do not make relationship, with men that don't have social power/social status, even if they are sexually attracted to them. So sexual attraction is not enough to make a long term relationship.
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Space Saving Technique Of Men's Testicles
One of the men's balls hang lower than the other, because it is nature's space saving technique.
If You Think This Way, You Get Laid More
Men don't think women want sex even though millions of sex workers around the world do sex more than 20 times a day , professionally, for life. Women can have sex 24 hours a day, without stopping, as opposed to men, who can't have sex all day long. Think it this way, a person that can have sex 24 hours, without losing much energy, how much sexual tension builds up in her, how hard is it for her to not to have sex with all that sexual energy. Moreover, women can have orgasm three ways, and multiple, which men can't. Women can have orgasm just by visualizing sex, which is called psycholagnic orgams, they can also have and clitoral and vaginal orgasm.
If you know, think and instill this belief in you that women want sex more, your paradigm changes, and you get laid more. To change your paradigm, just ask a woman who is your friend, who frankly talks about sex with you, if what I am saying is true. If she confirms, it you got your proof, to change your paradigm. But be careful, there are many women who would deny this lest it makes them appear as a "whore".
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Saturday, October 10, 2015
How Insecure People Approach
If you approach indirectly, that automatically means you are insecure. This usually makes the person you are approaching think you are manipulative or insecure. I am not saying this is true all the time.
What Indirect Sexual Advance In The Bed Means
If you make sexual advance indirectly in the bed, that means you are physically insecure.
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Insecurity Is Okay
To be insecure is to be human. Don't feel like you are lesser than others because you feel insecure. Everybody feels insecure time to time.
Friday, October 9, 2015
Women Do Try To Find Out Secretly
Women do try to find out secretly, indirectly about your penis size. They talk about it among themselves.
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Why Men Want To Get Laid For Free, Without Paying
Men want to get laid without paying because if they are able to get laid without spending any money, that means that the woman who is sleeping with them she is doing it because of who he is, not for his money. It is a form of validation. Sex is directly related to the ego. Men thinks, they deserve to sleep for free because of their look, competency, just like women get laid because of their look. They also think "If she really loves me, she would sleep with me for who I am, not for my money". Lot of men, leave women and justify it by thinking, "She slept with me for my money, not because of me, so I have the right to leave her".
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We Do It Unconsciously
Many times we try to manipulate our partner unconsciously.
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What Indirectly Expressing Things Does To Men
Ladies, if you are indirect in your expression or manner or when you request something, men think you are trying to control them or that you take them for granted. This info is from the book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. I personally think this makes men think you are manipulative.
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Unfortunately, Men Don't Get You
Many women think "If he loves me, he should know this". Unfortunately, men live in a different world and think differently than you. Unless you explain to them what is going on, they will never get it because of their wiring.
Ladies, Don't Worry If This Happens
Ladies, if a man stops talking, or is quiet a lot, this doesn't mean he is not into you. Men just don't communicate through talking. They communicate more by doing things together, with you or others. This info is found from the book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love WIth With You" by Leil Lowndes. Also, it might be that your man is too stressed or tired to talk.
Men, What Happens If You Don't Talk
If you don't talk or stay quiet, it makes women feel insecure, they feel you don't like them anymore, because women communicate through talking. This info is from the book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus". This is true for men too.
Ladies, This Might Make Men Think You Are Manipulative
If you show interest, or initiate the approach but act aloof when men approach you, many men might think you are manipulative, many men think this is rude, their ego hurts. If you want to find out if they are really into you, all you have to do is talk to them. If they are not interested, they don't approach. If you worry about appearing as a "whore", this actually does the opposite, it makes them think you are a whore. Most men don't get why you do this.
Why Women Act Aloof After Approaching You
Many times women indirectly approach men, and when they show interest they act like they don't care. Many times it is just because they want validation. Many times they want to be approached just because other women got approached by the same man. Sometimes it is to make you chase them. Sometimes to see, if you are really interested in her. Also, many women think, if they talk too easily it might make them look like a "whore". Most men don't get this.
Ladies, Men May Read Your Action Wrong
Many times when women try to "fix" men in the relationship, by criticizing him or by pushing him too hard, many men think "All she does is criticize me". This hurts his ego. His self esteem becomes low. You may mean well, but don't overdo it, as it might send the wrong message. This, I found in the book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus". Do not give unsolicited advice, even if you think it is good for him.
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Women Are More Social
Women are wired to be more social than men. I found this info in the book, "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus". I think there is some truth to this.
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Ladies, Don't Be On The Phone Too Much
With the internet, many tablets and smart phones choices, people are always connected to the internet. Since women are more social than men, women are always texting or talking over the phone. Unfortunately, this makes men feel like you are avoiding them. I am not saying men don't do this, but not as much as women.
The Biggest Sex Organ
The biggest sex organ is the mind/brain. We use our brain for sex more than anything else, though unconsciously. Our autonomous part of the brain makes us do things for sex without us realizing it. Unfortunately, it's not the penis or boob.
Who People Marry
Most of the time people marry the person who is as "attractive" as them. There is some truth to this. This, I found in the book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You" by Leil Lowndes.
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How Men And Women Bond
Men bond by doing things together. Women bond by talking. Found this info in the book "Sexual Intelligence"
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Sexual Attraction May Trigger Other Hormones
Researches show, sexual attraction also triggers emotional circuitry, thus causing the body to release hormones associated with emotional feelings. This might cause you to have feelings for the person you have sexual attraction for.
Ladies, Playing Hard To Get Doesn't Work
Ladies, playing hard to get doesn't make him like you more, according to Leil Lowndes. She mentions this in her book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You". I think this is good advice because it makes many men think you are manipulative.
How Women Approach When It Comes To The Bar Scene
Most women at the bar do a "walk around" by the men that they are attracted to, to be approached. Since they don't want to approach directly, they do this often. Remember this so that you can spot the women that want to be approached.
Women Initiate Approach More
According to Leil Lowndes, women initiate two thirds of all approaches. This I found in her book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You". By this I don't mean to stereotype women.
Don't Think Too Much About Relationship Problems
Do not obsess over relationship problems. It might keep you from doing things.
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How To Enlarge Your Penis Naturally
Use subliminal messaging to enlarge your penis naturally. You can find this type of message on youtube or you can buy them online.
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Men And Women Are Different
Men and women think and communicate differently. Found this in Leil Lowndes' book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You". Keep this in mind when you communicate with the other sex aka "the opposite sex".
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They Do Like It!
Women do like it in the arse! It is hard for many men to believe but it's true. Just think how many women work at the strip club and give lap dance everyday.
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Why Women Like Mature Men
Maturity indicates more experience and financial security.
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One In Every Five Men
One in every five men is looking for a female companion. I found this info in Leil Lowndes' book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You".
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Why Women Worry About Men's Financial Condition
Almost all women worry about men's financial stability, and if they are going to stick around after having sex. Most of the time it is not because they are greedy or money hungry. First, they need to make sure the guy is going to stick around to take care of the child, lest a child gets born. If a child gets born, she has to spend at least five years of her life taking care of that baby. She needs financial support during that time because she can't work during that time. Even though there are many contraceptives, since many women think of long term relationship, they have to worry about men's financial condition, to take care of the baby. Lot of men hate women because they are money hungry or greedy. There are women that are like that. But that's not the case all the time.
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Be Prepared For Women's Test
Women are always testing men, about job, financial condition, temper, etc. Be prepared for this test. Just smile when they test you. They will also test you to see where you draw the line.
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Don't Show Too Much Interest Too Soon
The female is always thinking the male is always hitting on her, always interested in her, because she gets approached by the male constantly. So, she puts her guard on. To work around this, prove her otherwise. Whenever you are with her, if you are not in a relationship with her, show her that you are not hitting on her so that she doesn't put her guard on. Show interest after you build rapport, when she lowers her guard.
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Don't Reveal Too Much
Don't reveal too much about yourself--job, education, hobbies, likes, dislikes,etc.---too soon. If you do, the mystery is gone. Also, if you reveal too much, it makes you look easy going or the person might think you are too interested. If you can't keep the mystery going, the person would lose interest.
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Why You Can't Approach
You can't approach because you don't know the people. We are programmed to not to socialize with the people we don't know since childhood. Undo this programming.
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You Don't Have To Be A Rock Star
Most men, when they are with women, try to appear as a "guitar rock star" or a "genius" a "scientist" or a "computer programmer" or something "super cool", even when they are not any of those things. When they are with women, they try to portray as a person that they think would attract the the women. What they don't realize is that many other men tried this, and they can sense this. They see right through them. They know they are trying to impress them. When people try to impress someone, they automatically put themselves in a lower position than that person, it comes off as a sycophantic behavior. That person takes them for granted. When people try to impress women, women think they are not comfortable with their true selves or their insecurity shows.
Always remember, when people try to impress someone, it comes off unnatural, and it makes them uncomfortable. You don't have to impress someone to get laid. On the other hand, if you are don't try to impress, you look secure and comfortable. That is very attractive.
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Don't Be On A Date
Don't ask people out on a date. First, it blocks you from initiating sex. Second, it makes both of you feel uncomfortable on a date. Initiate sex before the date. Needless to day, date also make you waste money and time.
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How To Respond In Text
If a woman texts you or messages you over the internet, do not show too much interest too soon, show that you are too busy to talk to her.
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Don't Go For The Number Right Away
Don't ask for the number as soon as you meet the women. This shows too much interest too soon. Unless there is a rapport, there is a connection, that number is no good. Women give out numbers all the time. Unless you make good impression/connection/rapport, she won't feel the need to respond well when you call. Just think what is her motivation. Unless both of you are leaving the place right away, don't go for the number.
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Insights About Rejection
If you get hurt from rejection, this only means you have a negative self image. For example, would Brad Pitt get insulted if he got rejected by a woman? Not likely because he is so successful in life, he wouldn't care if a woman rejected him, he would think it is her loss. Same way, if you have a positive self image, you don't care if someone rejects you because you know you are better than him/her. Now, if you are thinking if nothing is going well in my life, how to build a positive self image? First off, "nothing is going well" is not entirely true. Second, even if most things go wrong in life, you are just a human, things go wrong with everyone all the time. That doesn't make you any less of a human. That is no reason to think you are a failure. It's part of life. Just think your life is same as most others, so you don't need to feel inferior.
Remember, if you feel rejected, you chose to feel this way.
Rejection only hurts if you value her too much.
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Love Insight, Missing Elements In Life
In some say, we look for what we don't have in our partner. This is so true for many people.
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Thursday, October 8, 2015
Don't Feel Like You Should Be Approached First
The inclination to think that you should be approached first by your partner is more common in women. Lots of men think this way too.On the off chance that you hold to this conviction, it will lead you to the propensity for continually needing to be approached even after your relationship matures. Not just can this propensity keep you from satisfying your own particular needs (whether in a new or long-haul relationship) however it can send the wrong flags to your partner that you're "simply not that into" him or her. Which would stop him/her from approaching you and stop trying altogether.
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How Rejection Affects Your Body And Mind
When people experience rejection from a romantic relationship or an approach, it can actually trigger the same responses in the brain and body as if withdrawing from a drug addiction.
MRI studies demonstrate that the mind's reaction to rejection is the same as its reaction to physical torment/pain. But the difference is rejection leaves a long term scar in the mind which actually stops men from approaching altogether. Lots of men even freeze when they go near women (this is an unconscious process).
Humans were created to live in a pack. It is not surprising that we have evolved this pain response.
In tests ,when requested to recall the instances of rejection l individuals scored worse on IQ tests, memory tests, and choice making tests. Which in itself may clarify a ton of poor responses to rejection.
So, be kind to people how you reject people. You have the right to reject, but don't scar the person for life.
How Rejection Affects People With Depression
Individuals who suffer from depression may have a considerably harder time with sentiments of rejection. Since depression hinders the release of opioids, or body's common painkillers, people who experience rejection may feel the hurt more intensely and longer than non-depressed individuals.
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Post Sex Blues In Women
Research suggests that almost half of all women get post coitus sadness. This I found on The Telegraph's website. To find out more go here.
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Height Matters
Some researches suggest women are attracted to tall men. This is not to suggest that that is the only factor at work when they choose a man for mating, or to say that if you are short you can't attract women with other qualities.
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New research proposes that ladies tend to credit more antagonistic vibe to other ladies' countenances than is really present or expected. The thought of "resting bitch confront", the inclination for a lady's unbiased face demeanor to seem irate or irritated, has been getting on in the media, incorporating a late piece in the New York Times. A progression of new studies by Jaimie Arona Krems and her associates at the University of Arizona proposes that regardless of whether we see outrage in a lady's nonpartisan face may be halfway because of a propensity to consider them to be our sexual rivalry.
Krems and partners explored how ladies see outrage in other ladies. As indicated by the scientists, ladies face challenges in comprehension if other ladies are dangers for two reasons. Initially, ladies are more probable than men to shun physical animosity for roundabout hostility. Circuitous hostility can incorporate tattling, barring others, and double-crossing( (Just think about the motion picture Mean Girls(link is outside)). That makes ladies' animosity more inconspicuous and hard to distinguish. Second, ladies may be more probable than men to veil their indignation, making it particularly extreme to spot.
With a specific end goal to figure out whether ladies truly cover their looks of indignation, especially outrage toward other ladies, the creators studied 218 grown-ups about how likely they would be to put on different outward appearances in a given circumstance. For instance, members were solicited to depict what sort from outward appearance they would put on the off chance that they were at a burial service, yet observed something to be amusing. Of enthusiasm to the scientists, was the expression they would put on when irate with an outsider. A few members were requested that envision they were furious at a male more odd, others at a female outsider. As a rule, members reported they'd will probably demonstrate an irate than an impartial face when distraught at an outsider. The one special case to this example was female members reporting how they would respond when furious at another lady. Ladies envisioning how they'd respond when furious at a female outsider asserted they will probably put on an unbiased than an irate expression.
Given that ladies tend to veil their outrage at other ladies, Krems and associates suggest that ladies have built up a barrier against animosity from other ladies. In particular, the creators assert that ladies may be one-sided toward seeing indignation in other ladies' confronts, regardless of the fact that those ladies' appearances are candidly impartial. The creators contend that it's more versatile to have a couple of false cautions (seeing non-debilitating individuals as undermining) than to neglect to notice a genuine threat. So ladies will fail in favor of alert and over-see outrage on the characteristics of other ladies.
Keeping in mind the end goal to test this speculation, the creators led an extra examination. In this study, 88 members were solicited to view an arrangement from photos of individuals making nonpartisan face demeanors. They were informed that every individual had recently remembered a specific feeling (e.g., resentment, apprehension, pride) and afterward had attempted to shroud the feeling with an unbiased expression. They were likewise informed that hints of the feeling may in any case wait on the face, as smaller scale demeanors. Truth be told, unbeknownst to the members, the photographs' majority demonstrated a totally unbiased expression, and they were just haphazardly matched with the feeling data. Members were then requested that rate the degree to which they felt every individual was communicating different feelings.
The outcomes demonstrated that ladies were more probable than men to see outrage in the female appearances. Also, this wasn't on the grounds that ladies were just for the most part more prone to over-see outrage in all confronts: Women will probably see outrage in female than in male appearances. In addition, this example of results happened for displeasure, and not for different feelings, recommending that it's particular to outrage and not the case that ladies simply read more feelings (of any sort) into other ladies' appearances.
The creators additionally theorized that ladies who are sexual rivalry for other ladies, and along these lines potential focuses for their animosity, will be the most inclined to seeing annoyance in other ladies' appearances. Other examination has demonstrated that ladies who are sexually alluring or all the more sexually accessible have a tendency to be the objectives of this sort of aggression.4,5 Thus, the creators anticipated that ladies who consider themselves to be sexually attractive would be particularly inclined to see outrage in other ladies' unbiased face appearances.
In a third investigation of 56 grown-ups, the creators rehashed the passionate discernment test, however this time, they additionally requested that members report all alone sexual appeal and sexual accessibility (i.e., being interested in easygoing sex and reporting more sexual accomplices). Their outcomes at the end of the day uncovered the predisposition for ladies to see outrage in other ladies' impartial countenances. Moreover, ladies who saw themselves as attractive, or who were sexually accessible, showed this predisposition more than the individuals who considered themselves to be less alluring or accessible. The creators inferred that this predisposition is particularly versatile for these specific ladies on the grounds that they are, truth be told, well on the way to be under risk from other ladies.
While these examinations gave pleasant control over the countenances and expressions, I would even now be interested how these impacts play out when ladies are really cooperating with each other, as opposed to taking a gander at outside of any relevant connection to the issue at hand photographs. Would extra situational connection make ladies pretty much liable to see outrage in these unbiased countenances? Also, does this inclination stretch out past outward appearances to the understanding of manner of speaking, motions, or different practices? I would likewise suspect that the inclination would be reduced or vanish if members in the study had not been unequivocally informed that the general population in the photographs were covering their feelings.
This concentrate likewise brings up the issue of regardless of whether this predisposition is liable to lead ladies to all the more precisely see other ladies' feelings. In the last two analyses, the greater part of the outward appearances truly were unbiased, however as the creators found in the first study, ladies' impartial expressions with other ladies will probably cover furious emotions. So in this present reality, the predisposition reported by the analysts might really prompt more exact discernments. Then again, if real nonpartisan expressions are being seen as irate in an expansive cluster of connections, it is likely that the predisposition is driving ladies to false decisions around each other.
The study's creators clarify their discoveries regarding sexual rivalry. On the other hand, it's additionally very conceivable that social standards added to their outcomes. Ladies may veil outrage on the grounds that outrage is seen as particularly socially unsatisfactory for ladies to show. As the first study appears, ladies are mindful of their own propensity to veil outrage, so they may deduce that other ladies are like them, and are likewise particularly prone to cover resentment. In this manner they may be anticipating their own particular inclinations onto the ladies they're review. Men, who may not be as mindful of ladies' propensity to veil outrage, have less motivation to suspect that a lady's unbiased face is concealing annoyance, and in this manner don't have the same one-sided observations.
These discoveries make me wonder if the view of "resting bitch face" is conceived, to a limited extent, from sexual rivalry between ladies. In spite of the well known thought that allegations of resting bitch face are results of sexism, the scientists found that men were quite as liable to see outrage in resting male countenances as female appearances. Therefore, ladies appear to be the ones more prone to see a resting bitch face.
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Nobody Is Good The First Time
Don't feel bad if you don't perform good at sex the first time. Most people don't do good the first time.
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Love Connection
Love is a telepathic connection.What you feel, your lover also feels, if you both of you are in love.
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Wednesday, October 7, 2015
Befriend The "Unattractive" Girl
Every fat or "unattractive" girl has a pretty girl friend. So, if you can befriend an "unattractive" girl, you can get her pretty friend.
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The Law Of Proximity
The Law Of Proximity says that you can grow on a person simply by being around that person a lot. So, instead of flirting with people directly be around that person a lot.
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Women Fear Of Being Labeled By Other Women
Most women judge other women when they are in public for flirting with other men. They label each other as "slut" or "whore" for being too promiscuous.
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Tuesday, October 6, 2015
Why Women Go To The Bathroom Afterwards
Women go to the bathroom after they swallow cum because they don't want their man to see pulling out the pubic hair that get stuck in their mouth. If you are a man, don't get offended by this.
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Monday, September 28, 2015
Power Imbalance Is Bad For The Relationship
Relationship doesn't last if there is a power imbalance, no one can stand to see you win over him/her. From now on, I will refer to this as PI, power imbalance. So, in my future posts, if you see "PI", you know what this means.
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Sunday, September 27, 2015
You Shouldn't Obsess About This When It Comes To Dating
Don't obsess over you hair.
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Which Hormone Women Produce More
Women produce more oxytocin than men.
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High Testosterone Level Is Related To Risk Taking Behavior
The higher the testosterone level, the more risk taking behavior the male takes. According to lot of relationship gurus, women like a man that takes risk taking behavior.
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Why You Should Sometimes Disregard Your Feelings
If feelings get triggered in you, sometimes it is good, sometimes it is bad depending on the person you have feelings for . That person might bring you pleasure, but treat you badly, might torture you mentally, might be a control freak, might has personality disorder, might depend on you too much, might not let you pursue your dreams. If things are like this with that person, you should disregard your feelings.We don't always stay with the person who we have feelings for. Maybe that person is controlling, bossy; maybe that person is possessive; maybe that person is a kleptomaniac; maybe that person emotionally tortures you; maybe that person don't want to change; maybe that person can't be changed; maybe that person socially harasses you maybe you are not compatible with that person; maybe that person is menacing...well, you get the point.
The important thing to remember is you don't always choose who you have feelings for.
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