It Is Not Fair

When men wants you to perform different kinds of sexual activities, they don't do it to objectify women. They do it because they feel those in their bodies, unconsciously. So, it is not really fair to blame men for "objectifying" women.

Why He Might Leave You And Some Signs

If your criticism and accusation are always out of place, and your partner always feel like he has to explain his action all the time, but you keep doing it, that means you're controlling. If your partner feels like you are always reading him wrong which is causing you to criticize and accuse him, then he thinks you are wired to read your partner wrong, you're not malleable, you are just that way . He is going to emotionally tune you out, and alienate himself from you. Signs of this are: wanting to live in a separate room, doing stuff by himself, not attending at family gatherings, not going to out to do something fun with you, always spending time in solitude because spending time with you would drain his mental energy, etc.

Don't Harass Men To Make Yourself Look Innocent

Ladies, do not harass men to make it look like that you are not a slut because most men also want to keep their debauchery secret, they want to help you keep yours secret. What's not okay is making it look like they are the only one interested. They feel betrayed. You just have to trust them. Men too feel ashamed for showing interest around other men and feel like they are being judged . What more is that they feel like they are scared of being beaten. So, this little incident actually scars them for life even if this seem "small" matter to you.

Why The Man Might Resent You

Because the man has to pay to be with you, to keep you by him he thinks he is not attractive enough without the money. So, he lose confidence and start to resent you. So, say nice things to him about his look and competency if you feel he resents you.

What A Man Think A True Woman Lover Is

A true lover wouldn't punish her lover by socially harassing him.

Why Women Believe They Are Whores

Unfortunately, if people tell you enough times that you are a whore or lecherous, you start to believe it yourself without actually doing anything sexual. You become wary of how you behave with the opposite sex...you always think he might think your act is sexual even though it is not.

What Most Women Don't Get

What most women don't understand is in a relationship that if they treat their partner badly sooner or later you have to suck up to their partner to assuage. Why treat your partner badly at the first place?

Learn To Talk Properly

We are wired to be social, that is why we feel like sharing our thoughts by talking. Talking is one of the best tools we have for socializing, connecting with other people. Unfortunately, when we talk, most of us can't enunciate our thoughts and can't talk accurately, we tend to talk uncontrollably. The best way to avoid this is to write down your thoughts and  peruse through what you write and fix the mistakes and memorize. Then practice speaking it.  Also, you have to practice talking slowly and watch what you say. It's not that people are not profound, it is that they can't enunciate and talk uncontrollably, randomly. They don't practice speaking. Talking randomly and uncontrollably irk people.

Some Reasons Why Men Cheat Or Leave

I wrote this long ago because many women ask "Why men leave without saying anything", or "Why men leave after sex", or "Why men cheat". I have tried to compile the reasons which I think might make men do those. This doesn't mean these are the only reasons or that these are true for everyone:

Why your man might cheat, or eject from your relationship suddenly without giving a notice  or how is it justified leaving after sex . He might not be able to enunciate these. He might not even realize he feels this way because these are unconscious responses. He might not leave or cheat, but hold some of these stuff against you.

Some sage once said: The man doesn't cheat because he is lecherous, he cheats because his dreams are not met because of his partner, because  he's  emotionally abused, because he  doesn't find peace while he's with his partner. 

Here are are the reasons I compiled :

1. If you flirt but play hard to get.  This makes him think you flip flop, prevaricate,and it makes him nervous. He gets stuck mentally because his thinking is linear and this is out of sequence for him. It also makes him think your thinking is not linear, not lucid/transparent. Also you are not educated because your thinking is not transparent enough, because you can't think straight.

2. If you flirt, but say 'no' when he asks you out. This makes him think you don't care about his feelings even though he opens up to you because after he's rejected he goes through trauma if there's feelings , he feels you're going to continue to not care about his feelings. This is also a out of sequence for him, confuses him further.

3. You are mean to him and you don't apologize to him after being mean. This makes him think you are a tyrant and you do not accept to your wrongs. This also makes him feel you don't care about his feelings. He thinks you won't deliver when he demands something that is justified for him to demand. If he dubs you as a tyrant, he thinks he can't change you in a way that would help him to achieve his lifelong dreams. Then there's no point in being with you because you are going to hamper his lifelong dreams.

4. Your lies are obvious and you continue to do it. Say you say you are good to Connecticut but you actually are not.

5. You publicly say negative things about him. This makes him think you are going to harass him in public to get your ways instead of dealing with him directly in private.

6. You play the jealousy game. Jealousy game is manipulation. 

7. You are indirect. If you're indirect, he thinks you are manipulative.

8. You don't accept him in public. Your sexual reputation is more important than his feelings and reputation.

8. You try to make it look like he's the only one who's flirting with you where as you initiate the flirtation.

9. If you use sex to goad him and then ration sex. This makes him think you are going to use sex as a weapon, use it to get him to do stuff. 

10. If you withhold sex to punish him.

11. If you never think about anything but material things. You don't want to be an artist or a writer or a scientist or something that uses your mind. This makes him think you are average and your thinking is of low level. All you want is money and you are greedy.

11. He speaks to you you pretend like you don't hear or you act like it's no big deal. It makes him feel like you are not going to listen to him when he really needs you. Also that he's not important enough to you.

11. If you use other men against him. This puts him through severe trauma. Might scar him for life.

12. If you tell about your relationship problems to all your relatives and friends.

13. If all you do is criticize him and when you can't find something to criticize you make up stuff about him to criticize. This makes him think all you want from is his physical labor, you want to use him.

14. If you just flirt and not talk to him and don't let him talk to you about your relationship. He feels you don't care about him and the relationship. He feels you can't think straight because you're not showing good judgment in this regard.

15. You think it's ok to avoid him whenever you please.

16. If you are not flexible in doing things.

17. If you are controlling.

18. If you are socially more powerful than he is and you abuse it.

19. You never talk about how you feel about him. This makes him think you don't care about him.

20. If you continue to say or imply how incompetent he's despite his hard work.

Men Have To Be In Love To Be Jealous

One of the biggest mistake women make is they try to make men jealous by flirting with others. They would only be jealous if they are in love with you. You can't make the men fall in love with you by creating jealousy, because men don't get jealous unless they are in love. And it comes automatically, you can' create it in them. It has to come from them, without you creating it. You can use it to see if they are in love with you, but not to create love with it.

Ladies, What Does A Guy Think When You Do This

When you tell a guy you have a boyfriend even when you don't or play the jealousy game too much, most men dub you as a "manipulator". It hurts them emotionally. They think, "If she can play with my emotion like this, she can hurt me in the future emotionally". This makes many men reluctant to be with you. 

What Indirectly Expressing Things Does To Men

Ladies, if you are indirect in your expression or manner or when you request something, men think  you are trying to control them or that you take them for granted. This info is from the book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. I personally think this makes men think you are manipulative.
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Unfortunately, Men Don't Get You

Many women think "If he loves me, he should   know this". Unfortunately, men live in a different world and think differently than you. Unless you explain to them what is going on, they will never get it because of their wiring.

Ladies, Don't Worry If This Happens

Ladies, if a man stops talking, or is quiet a lot, this doesn't mean he is not into you. Men just don't communicate through talking. They communicate more by doing things together, with you or others. This info is found from the book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love WIth With You" by Leil Lowndes. Also, it might be that your man is too stressed or tired to talk.

Ladies, This Might Make Men Think You Are Manipulative

If you show interest, or initiate the approach but act aloof when men approach you, many men might think you are manipulative, many men think this is rude, their ego hurts. If you want to find out if they are really into you, all you have to do is talk to them. If they are not interested, they don't approach. If you worry about appearing as a "whore", this actually does the opposite, it makes them think you are a whore. Most men don't get why you do this. 

Ladies, Don't Be On The Phone Too Much

With the internet, many tablets and smart phones choices, people are always connected to the internet. Since women are more social than men, women are always texting or talking over the phone. Unfortunately, this makes men feel like you are avoiding them. I am not saying men don't do this, but not as much as women.

Ladies, Playing Hard To Get Doesn't Work

Ladies, playing hard to get doesn't make him like you more, according to Leil Lowndes. She mentions this in her book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You". I think this is good advice because it makes many men think you are manipulative.

Why Women Go To The Bathroom Afterwards

Women go to the bathroom after they swallow cum because they don't want their man to see pulling out the pubic hair that get stuck in their mouth. If you are a man, don't get offended by this.
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You Shouldn't Obsess About This When It Comes To Dating

Don't obsess over you hair.
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Which Hormone Women Produce More

Women produce more oxytocin than men.
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