How To Be Good In Bed

Sex is more psychological than people realize. We all heard the saying "Mind is the biggest sex organ". This actually, at least partially,  means how you make the person feel  mentally  is what determines how good the sex is going to be. To be more specific how you make the person feel emotionally. By having sex with the right person, you can feel empowered, recharged. To be "good in bed" is purely psychological. Sexual satisfaction is mental satisfaction before the physical act. Sex is ego validation. You have to satisfy the person's ego to satisfy the person sexually. It's how much you respect the person.

A person can look "not so good" but can be real good in bed. For example, if a guy is a rock star but doesn't look so "good", the woman he's having sex would still find the sex real good because of his status, because of his stardom. It has more to do with how you make the person feel when you are around that person. When the person is around you,  do you feel excited, happy or annoyed, bored is what determines how good the sex is going to be. If a person is funny and has his life together, he can make his partner more happy even if he doesn't look good. If a person has his life together, he/she can make his/her partner more happy in bed, than a person who doesn't.

Lot of people also have the mindset, "What I am getting from by having sex with this person". For example lots of men think, "If she cooks for me, she does the laundry, she takes care  of my kids, if she packs my lunch for me, if she does this and that, she's is a 'good wife', so having sex with her is fun". Many women think, "If he can provide me my life necessities, good at his job, buys me jewelry, if he doesn't cheat on me, he's a 'good husband', so I am going to satisfy him in bed". In both cases, how both sides satisfy each other's material needs determines how good the sex is. In other words, what's my motivation for having sex?

In some of my past relationships, many times, when I was happy when  other women came onto me, my then girlfriends wouldn't be so nice in bed because they got a little jealous. Or sometimes when I was mean to them, they weren't as nice as usual. Another time, my then girlfriend was mean to me, I actually made her pay fifty bucks to tame me. In another occasion, when an ex cooked for me, took me to a nice restaurant, I was very nice to her. So, it's how good you make a person  feel emotionally, determines how good you are in bed. Remember sex is in the emotional brain as much as it is in the animal brain, the  R-complex. It is what you do before sex all day long, it's how you treat the person trigger his/ her emotional circuitry of love, how much you satisfy that person's ego determines how good the sex is going to be.You have to let the person know that you like the person before the person's physical need is met. If the person doesn't feel good about himself/herself, know that you appreciate him/her for who he/she is, he/she is not going to enjoy sex with you. The person has to feel appreciated.  So, sex is just not about look, it's your status, your lifestyle, how you make the person feel emotionally, it's your whole life, what the person is getting from you by having sex, and how you make the person feel when you are around the person.

Stop Spectatoring

Stop worrying during sex.
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Why Women Like The Penis

Women like the penis because of pheromone secretion from your crotch area.

Space Saving Technique Of Men's Testicles

One of the men's balls hang lower than the other, because it is nature's space saving technique.

If You Think This Way, You Get Laid More

Men don't think women want sex even though millions of sex workers around the world  do sex more than 20 times a day , professionally, for life. Women can have  sex 24 hours a day, without stopping, as opposed to  men, who can't have sex all day long. Think it this way, a person that can have sex 24 hours, without losing much energy, how much sexual tension builds up in her, how hard is it for her to not to have sex with all that sexual energy. Moreover, women can have orgasm three ways, and multiple, which men can't. Women can have orgasm just by visualizing sex, which is called psycholagnic orgams, they can also have  and clitoral and vaginal orgasm.

If you know, think and instill this belief in you that women want sex more, your paradigm changes, and you get laid more. To change your paradigm, just ask a woman who is your friend, who  frankly talks about sex with you, if what I am saying is true. If she confirms, it you got your proof, to change your paradigm. But be careful, there are many women who would deny this lest it makes them appear as a "whore".
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Women Do Try To Find Out Secretly

Women do try to find out secretly, indirectly about your penis size. They talk about it among themselves.
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The Biggest Sex Organ

The biggest sex organ is the mind/brain. We use our brain for sex more than anything else, though unconsciously. Our autonomous part of the brain makes us do things for sex without us realizing it. Unfortunately, it's not the penis or boob.

Ladies, Playing Hard To Get Doesn't Work

Ladies, playing hard to get doesn't make him like you more, according to Leil Lowndes. She mentions this in her book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You". I think this is good advice because it makes many men think you are manipulative.

How Women Approach When It Comes To The Bar Scene

Most women at the bar do a "walk around" by the men that they are attracted to, to be approached. Since they don't want to approach directly, they do this often. Remember this so that you can spot the women that want to be approached.

Women Initiate Approach More

According to Leil Lowndes, women initiate two thirds of all approaches. This I found in her book "How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You". By this I don't mean to stereotype women.

Don't Think Too Much About Relationship Problems

Do not obsess over relationship problems. It might keep you from doing things.
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Do Not Obsess Over Your Look

Do not obsess over your look. It causes you to lose confidence.

They Do Like It!

Women do like it in the arse! It is hard for many men to believe but it's true. Just think how many women work at the strip club and give lap dance everyday.
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Why Women Like Mature Men

Maturity indicates more experience and financial security.
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Be Prepared For Women's Test

Women are always testing men, about job, financial condition, temper, etc. Be prepared for this test. Just smile when they test you. They will also test you to see where you draw the line.
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Don't Show Too Much Interest Too Soon

The female is always thinking the male is always hitting on her, always interested in her, because she gets approached by the male constantly. So, she puts her guard on. To work around this, prove her otherwise. Whenever you are with her, if you are not in a relationship with her, show her that you are not hitting on her so that she doesn't put her guard on. Show interest after you build rapport, when she lowers her guard.
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Why You Can't Approach

You can't approach because you don't know the people. We are programmed to not to socialize with the people we don't know since childhood. Undo this programming.
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You Don't Have To Be A Rock Star

Most men, when they are with women, try to appear as a "guitar rock star" or a "genius" a "scientist" or a "computer programmer" or something "super cool", even when they are not any of those things. When they are with women, they try to portray as a person that they think would attract the the women. What they don't realize is that many other men tried this, and they can sense this. They see right through them. They know they are trying to impress them. When people try to impress someone, they automatically put themselves in a lower position than that person, it comes off as a sycophantic behavior. That person takes them for granted. When people try to impress women, women  think they are not comfortable with their true selves or their insecurity shows. 

Always remember, when people try to impress someone, it comes off unnatural, and it makes them uncomfortable. You don't have to impress someone to get laid. On the other hand, if you are don't try to impress, you look secure and comfortable. That is very attractive.
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Don't Be On A Date

Don't ask people out on a date. First, it blocks you from initiating sex. Second, it makes both of you feel uncomfortable on a date. Initiate sex before the date. Needless to day, date also make you waste money and time.

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How To Respond In Text

If a woman texts you or messages you over the internet, do not show too much interest too soon, show that you are too busy to talk to her.
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