Men, Don't Project Your Own Negative Image Onto Other Men

Lot of men, when they hear that some other guy has a girlfriend or some girl is crazy for the guy, they automatically say, "IS she fat?" or "IS she unattractive?" or something to that sort. What they are doing is projecting. Only because they don't believe that they can have a pretty girlfriend, they automatically assume the guy can't also have a pretty girlfriend. Even if it is true, what they don't realize is that it makes the guy feel bad because it makes him feel like he is not good enough to have a pretty girl. It is also mean. So, guys be aware how you respond when you hear when someone was loved by some woman. All it matters is that it made the guy happy. It is a form of jealousy. It happens on an unconscious level.
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