Why You Can't Speak Well In Public

If you can't speak well in public, that means you have low social status. We are wired to conform to majority. If others perceive you as a low status person, person you unconsciously believe it because our mind receives status signal from the way others treat you, automatically. It happens way below your conscious level. When people are put in place, they are forced to accept that place because of our wiring. Whoever engineered our mind, engineered it to follow the herd and it's leader, without us being totally aware of it. It is not accurate to say people have the herd mentality, it is more like people are engineered to have a herd mentality and they can't undo it.

Practice Talking Slowly

This, I myself find very hard to do, even though I am trying to do it myself. When, we talk to someone we talk too fast. Too many thoughts too fast bore the human brain. So, in social situations, or when you approach women, practice talking slowly this will make your statements easier for them to understand, and they won't get bored so easily. You won't seem nervous. Talking too fast sometimes is sign of a nervousness. So if you can talk slowly, you won't appear too nervous, you will seem in control. Talking slowly will make you more lucid. This is also good for public speaking, not only when it comes to approaching the opposite sex.

This is also good advice for women.
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