If you get hurt from rejection, this only means you have a negative self image. For example, would Brad Pitt get insulted if he got rejected by a woman? Not likely because he is so successful in life, he wouldn't care if a woman rejected him, he would think it is her loss. Same way, if you have a positive self image, you don't care if someone rejects you because you know you are better than him/her. Now, if you are thinking if nothing is going well in my life, how to build a positive self image? First off, "nothing is going well" is not entirely true. Second, even if most things go wrong in life, you are just a human, things go wrong with everyone all the time. That doesn't make you any less of a human. That is no reason to think you are a failure. It's part of life. Just think your life is same as most others, so you don't need to feel inferior.
Remember, if you feel rejected, you chose to feel this way.
Rejection only hurts if you value her too much.
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