Showing posts with label self help. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self help. Show all posts

Saturday, May 6, 2017

Certain Level Of Materialism Is Necessary

Life is designed so that you always feel like you are losing... Also the human has an scarcity mentally. These two factors make sure he is materialistic.  Certain level of materialism is needed to maintain healthy spiritual life because without living a good life it is not possible to grow spiritually. If you can't grow spiritually, you can't leave the illusory reality of this realm which is the ultimate purpose of immaterialism.

Most Don't Deliver What They Say

Always remember most people, institutions and companies, don't deliver what they say.

None Of Your Thoughts Are Yours

The thoughts in your head are not your thoughts. They have been inculcated.

Friday, March 10, 2017

Everyone's Personality Is Different

Different people make you feel differently. Some people are fun to hang out with, some are not. Learn to be fun to be hang around with.

The Most Important Skill To Learn

The most important skill to learn is how to learn.

Saturday, March 4, 2017

Reading Is Not Learning

 Do not mistake reading for understanding or real knowledge. Only because you read something does not mean, you really understand the meaning or aware of it all the time.

You Behave Like What You Have Experienced Before In Life

Precedence shapes your reality and your perception of it and your behavior.

Do Not Think You Feel Bad

 Do not give yourself the excuse that you feel bad and do not use that to excuse yourself from doing what you are supposed to do because it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Unless you have some kinda medical problem, depression, be aware of this. 

Do Not Shame Yourself

The man's ability to shame himself is so vast even after working all his life he thinks he hasn't achieved anything. Your worst critic is you. 

Self Deception



Self deception is when you justify not doing things and think it's okay. You sort of don't do anything in particular and think it's okay to not go anywhere. In your mind everything should be easier. Your mind sort of always wait for a better situation Don't say later will be better. 

Wednesday, March 1, 2017

Why You Might Be Angre All The Time

If you are mad all the time you have lots of unresolved issues.

Beware Of The Way You Appear

The way you talk, behave and your body language give away your social status.

Why You Can't Speak Well In Public

If you can't speak well in public, that means you have low social status. We are wired to conform to majority. If others perceive you as a low status person, person you unconsciously believe it because our mind receives status signal from the way others treat you, automatically. It happens way below your conscious level. When people are put in place, they are forced to accept that place because of our wiring. Whoever engineered our mind, engineered it to follow the herd and it's leader, without us being totally aware of it. It is not accurate to say people have the herd mentality, it is more like people are engineered to have a herd mentality and they can't undo it.

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

Strange But True

Strange but true: every time you see or hear something your mind is comparing the situation with something you've experienced before or what it's programmed with... your mind is not able to read what is actually happening. We only understand fifty percent of what we hear or see. Everything else gets "filtered". We don't read the incidents as they are at the moment we perceive the. 

Listen To What Doesn't Make Sense, What Your Mind Is Avoiding

When people tell you something or when you read something, don't only focus on the stuff that are making sense or the ones that sound good...focus on the stuff that are not making sense or the ones that don't sound good...examine those...that way you expand your horizon....usually, the stuff that you are avoiding are the ones that turns in to profound realization years later. 

Saturday, February 25, 2017

Don't Do This In Public

Don't put yourself down in public

Your Look Is Linked To Your Social Status

How well you look depends on your social status.

Your Reality Is Only True For You

What happens to you become your reality, shape your paradigm. What becomes your paradigm keeps happening to you.

Where Does Low Self Esteem Come From

Low self-esteem comes from leading a bad life. You can't just will it away over night. You have to lead a good life and make enough good things happen to give you the positive experiences needed to develop your self esteem.

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

Your Performance Level

How well you perform depends on three things: how helpful and resourceful your reference group is, how well you live and and how much resource you have. For example if you go to a bad school with sub standard education level, you might not be well spoken.