You Can't Be Confident Overnight

You always hear people say "Be Confident", but unless you see success it is not going to be automatic. If you don't see success, you always have to either will it or fake it. If you don't see success in your doing, if your deep seated  issues are not gone from your mind, you will never be really confident. One way is to see the positive side of something that happen to you. For example, if you miss a day from your work, you can think this either as losing money, or having some time to do something productive. Learn how to be successful first, confidence will follow.