My former employer, Mel Belazuela, of Exquisite Staffing, told my brother, Kabir Ahmed, after I wrote against him and Hani Matkovic, on Facebook that Hani Matkovic, was stalking me, that she has been married for "last three years" at that time. Then, because I told my mom about work place harassment by Exquisite Staffing employees, he told my brother, Kabir Ahmed, to tell my mom that I had a "relationship" with Hani Matkovic. This means she made the "relationship" with me even though she was "married". Now those two statements seem contradictory. The truth is she and Exquisite Staffing's employees, captains and Freemasonic cult members/plants were stalking me, they were using her marriage as a cover, because those two statements can't be true at the same time. They were coercing me to be with her by withholding pay checks, using "electronic harassment" and by harassing me at work, as she was supposed to be my "handler". I have sent an email, which I have in my email, to Exquisite Staffing saying Hani Matkovic was stalking me, but they didn't take any action. Instead, they told me to keep my mouth shut. This makes Exquisite Staffing and Mel Belazuela a complicit. There is more to this story, I am not saying more because they killed my grandma because I posted against them on Facebook. I have no choice, Freemasons and cults and organizations associated with them are all over the world. They have long been infiltrated my family and extended family. They have harassed and tortured me for last few years, in addition to gangstalking me for many years. They have long cut me off from my family money and frozen my family asset. They harass me wherever I go. I have been kicked out of my own house in my country, Bangladesh. They have harassed me so much, I have gone through few mini strokes without getting any medical attention. Now, I have no motor skill, coordination and day by day my body is more and more atrophied, paralyzed. My thoughts are not lucid.
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Tuesday, December 5, 2017
Can't Date Women, Being Harassed
I am being gangstalked and the Freemasons and their "appended bodies", oraganizations associated with them, their plants hidden as everyday ordinary citizens around the world are harassing me whenever I make an advance to a woman IRL and online.they harass me when I post something to a woman's post on social media. They are doing it so that I am forced to marry one of their members so that they can use her as my handler and control my life.
Once a girl just said "hi" to me and exchanged pleasantries, one of their people said to me, if I ever went near that girl again I would be beaten up.
Monday, May 22, 2017
Don't Get Married Because The Society Wants You To
Lots of women get married the next guy they see just because they want to have a baby and the society expect them to be married and have a baby. They are pressured by the society to hold up that image
Saturday, May 6, 2017
Don't Be An Structurist When It Comes To Women
If you are left brain oriented, a structurist, overly logical and think sequentially you are never going to be good with women. Being logical and structurist is good in many other areas of life but not when it comes to women. Unfortunately, women are indoctrinated to think illogically. When you are logical or structurist with women it makes you not see their perspective. There are exercises that you can do to work your right brain more, to increase intuition. Listening to soothing music is one of them. More exercise for right brain will be added here.
Certain Level Of Materialism Is Necessary
Life is designed so that you always feel like you are losing... Also the human has an scarcity mentally. These two factors make sure he is materialistic. Certain level of materialism is needed to maintain healthy spiritual life because without living a good life it is not possible to grow spiritually. If you can't grow spiritually, you can't leave the illusory reality of this realm which is the ultimate purpose of immaterialism.
Most Don't Deliver What They Say
Always remember most people, institutions and companies, don't deliver what they say.
None Of Your Thoughts Are Yours
The thoughts in your head are not your thoughts. They have been inculcated.
Curse Of Jacques De Molay
Before he was murdered at the stake Jacques De Molay, grand master of the Knights Of The Templar, cursed both Pope Clement V and King Philip IV and predicted the death of both within the year. The Pope and King Philip tortured Jacques de Molay for seven years and burned him alive at the stake. Molay's curse worked and they both died within that period.
Etymology Of The Word "Hell"
The word "hell"comes from the Norse word Hel which represents the Norse underworld.
Thursday, March 30, 2017
Nothing Happens Out Of The Law Of Nature
"Everything happens according to the law. Nothing happens by chance."---Hermes Tresmegistus, The Kybalion. I think he meant the law of nature, by "the law". It could mean the laws of physics.
We Shouldn't Ignore Assumptions
"Just because an assumption tends to escape scrutiny does not mean we should continue to ignore it."--Kathleen Taylor.
Why They Should Give Us Our Genome
They should tell us our genome as soon as we are born so that we know what we are good at. If our ancestors were good at something it gets carried onto us through genese According to Rudolhp Steiner,
"During two and half centuries musical aptitudes were inherited by the members of the Bach family." If someone know that he's the aptitude for musice as early as possible in life, he can decide to be a musician. He also says, "It can be shown through exact investigation of the line of ancestory of an individual that, in one way or other, the talents of this individual have appeared in the ancestors and that they present only a summation of inherited tendencies." I think our character and personolity is inherited from our ancestors.
Which Side Of The Brain Is Used When Yout Listen To Music
When you listen to music you use right side of your brain.
Toad As Jesus!
Upon becoming a Magus through a self invented ceremony Aleister Crowly baptized a toad as Jesus Christ and crucified it in 1916, in Bristol, New Hampshire.
Four New Elements Have Been Added To The Periodic Table
For new elements have been added to the periodic table. Which are Nihonium, Moscovium,Tennessine, Oganesson. They have the atomic number 113, 114,115, 116. For details go to: http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/2016/12/02/periodic-table-names-new-elements/94815326/
Why Saturn Is The Slowest Moving Planet In Our Solar System
Saturn is the slowest moving planet. Saturn makes a complete orbit around the sun (a year in Saturnian time) in 29 Earth years.
Removal Of The Christian Bible From The Public School In The US
Dr. Madalyn Murray O'Hair removed the christian bible and compulsory prayer from the public schools in 1963, in the US.
Sunday, March 19, 2017
We Understand Only Part Of What We See Or Hear
We understand only fifty percent of what we hear or see. Everything else is "filtered" by our preconceived notion. This is why we sometimes when we hear something new. Think about class where you didn't get anything because you didn't have the prerequisite, things didn't really register, this is why.
You Always Need A Guide
You always need to a guide or a teacher throughout your life, not just in school. A good quote about this is: "There is a teaching current in the world today to the effect that a man doesn't need a teacher, that a man should be sufficient unto himself, that he has it within him to find his own path, that is he has it within him to find his own path; and this is said to be a manly course of life. Verily so it is: truth abides within in fullness. But why haven't you found the path? Why aren't you what you claim you can be? For the simple reason that you don't know how to be it and because you have not been taught. You need a teacher."-- by G De Purucker. To find the true path, you need a teacher or a guide.
You Might Not Be Suffering From Depression
You might be depressed because of your reference group. It might not have anything to do with you. May be it's poverty. May be people treat you badly. A good quote about this is:"Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self esteem, make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes."---William Gibson. Another thing about this is your self esteem is as good as people's treatment to you. If people treat you badly, your ego hurts, and you get low self esteem. If people treat you good, your self esteem gets a boost.
Where Did They Initiate Plato In To The Mystery School
Plato was initiated in to the mystery school in the Pyramid.
Witch Power
Thought power is known as "witch power" in occult circle.
Automatic Writing
When someone writes what he receives from an unseen spirit, the process is called "automatic writing".
Synesthesia
The ability to picture sounds in your head is called synesthesia. Many people are born with this ability. Others can develop it.
Where Did The Word "Typhoon" Come From
Typhon was a many snakes headed sea monster. From this we get the word "Typhoon"
Where Did The Word "Mesmerize" Originate
The origin of the term “mesmerize” dates back to Franz Anton Mesmer, an 18th century physician in Vienna who founded a therapeutic movement called mesmerism. He used to believe there is a fluid in human body which reacts to the gravitational field of the body. He used to cure people using this and by manipulating the fluid in the body.
Animals Can Mesmerize Their Prey
Many predatory animals can mesmerize and paralyze their prey with their mind before killing.
Who Created The "Elixir Of Life"
Arthur Machen, the astronomer Royal of Scotland invented the elixir of life.
Strange Love
Casanova's own daughter fell in love with him but she didn't know he was her father.
Bath In Blood To Preserve Good Look!
Hungarian countess Elizabeth Bathory bathed regularly in human blood to preserve her look.
Moleosophy
There's such a thing called Moleosophy--telling one's character by moles on his body.
Who Discovered Emerald Tablet Of Thoth AKA Hermes Trismegistus
Emerald tablet of Hermes Trismegistus was discovered by Sarah, wife of Abraham.
How Many Parts Of The Brain
The brain has seven parts. They are:
1.cerebrum
2.cerebellum
3.brain stem
4.pituitary gland
5.hypothalamus
6.Parietal Lobe
7.Temporal Lobes
1.cerebrum
2.cerebellum
3.brain stem
4.pituitary gland
5.hypothalamus
6.Parietal Lobe
7.Temporal Lobes
Monday, March 13, 2017
Why Dogs And Cats Avoid Haunted Houses
Dogs and cats avoid haunted houses because they can see spirits which humans can't.
Real Meaning Of The Word "Orgy"
The word "orgy" comes from the Greek word "Orgia" which means to worship.
Where Slot Machine Was Invented
Slot machine was invented in ancient Egypt.
Friday, March 10, 2017
What Makes You A Polygamous
Watching too many nude videos, nude, semi-nude imagery makes you a polygamous. Also thinking, visualizing about sex make you a polygamous.
When A Girl Insults You In The Begining
If a girl insults you in the beginning, reply with "You are a good girl".
Things To Remember For Your Relationship
Always remember, our ego justifies our wrong action. We also blame our partner preemptively to hide our wrong action so that we don't get blamed first. And we don't accept our wrong action to save our gender fearing the opposite sex would take advantage of us. Therefore, the opposite sex would win. In our mind, our partner represents all the members of the opposite sex.
We also love to play the victim in our relationship...we think like,"I work, work and work all day for you...I get nothing in return"....
Everyone's Personality Is Different
Different people make you feel differently. Some people are fun to hang out with, some are not. Learn to be fun to be hang around with.
Saturday, March 4, 2017
We All Do This
Most people have no problem talking about the things that they have no idea about. We go on and on about things that happen around the world without really knowing what is going on. We talk about things that we are not completely aware of
Why You Might Not Be Able To Approach
The men who can't approach women are programmed to think women are mean when approached. This conditioning happen because of years of experience. Enough positive response, visualization, incantation can undo this.
Sometimes We Justify Not Approaching Thinking That The Person Is Not Going To Like Us
.Because of insecurity you think if you approach the person he is going
to hate it. At the end you justify it by saying "I don't want that
person". This sort of happens automatically. Ask yourself if that person
was really into you, would you not approach him/her? Don't assume the person is going to like you.
Don't Think This Way
Don't think you lose sexual energy by watching sexual imagery, sexual scene, it's going to psychologically weaken you.
How Old Women Hit On Younger Men
If an old women asks you for direction or compliments you, she is hitting on you.
Don't Do This Without Consulting Your Women
Don't talk against another woman in front of your woman. If you have
some animosity with some women consult your women before talking against
her.
Vacationing Girls Are Easier Targets
New York, LA, DC, cities like these are ripe with girls that are
visiting and vacationing from other countries. Girls would do anything
while they are vacationing. Most capitals and cosmopolitan cities have
girls that are vacationing. They are found at the big hotels.
Your Opinion Is As Good As Your Social Value
How much value your opinion has depends on your social status. It
doesn't matter how smart or dumb or profound you are. So, don't feel bad
if people don't value your opinion. The people that can't value your
opinion because of their agenda or ego they are unethical, tyrannical.
It matters little what they think.
It's Not A Rejection
When a girl tells you she just wants to be friend, that is not a rejection. Women do mess with men's mind this way.
Sitting Too Much At The Computer May Harm Your Game
If you are always at the computer or looking at screens you can't approach women because you always have low energy. It makes you an introvert. Many of us are addicted to computer.
Your Body Language Might Show You Are Not Used To Talking To Women
If you are not used to talking to women your body language is going to
be closed when you do start to start having conversations with them. You are going to rigid. Be are of this.
Different Level Of Understanding Of The Same Thing
There are different level of understanding of the same thought or statement. Things might look differently at different times.
They Might Have Things That You Don't
If you see a guy who can game lots of women, who's the ultimate player,
who's got better game don't be jealous. It might be just that he's
privy to some secret or that he's got something that he did't have to
work hard for. I am not saying there are not men who don't work hard to
learn the game, but there are others who are born rich or leading a
better life or have better reference group or tools. In either case it's
worth finding out what they have that you don't. Hang out with them.
Why The Poor Man Suffers From Depression
The poor man suffers from depression because he has to bottle up anger
and frustration. His social status does not allow him to express
anything.
There Is No Place For The "I" In Your Brain
The brain constantly tries to make sense of an "I" or the self even
though there is no specific place in the brain for doing so. The idea of
self is an illusion. Even though your personality changes everyday this
sense of self continues in your subconscious. This just creates the
illusion that you are different from others where as you are only
different because of your environment and the life you are leading.
Think about this your persona that you put in public is not the same one
when you are with your family. You put a different personas around
different people.
Why You Might Have A Weak Libido
If your libido is weak that means you are not living peaceful, happy
life. Too much anxiety, depression is messing up your manifesting as
weak libido.
Why Some People Become Antisocial
Some people become antisocial because they feel other people force them
to conform. If majority rules the black sheep always suffer.
Words Are Not Just Words
Words are very powerful for your unconscious mind as they are never erased from your mind. They work in deep recess of your mind.
You Might Be Playing The Victim
When arguing over an issue with your partner, if you are blaming your
partner and you have to make up stuff to justify your cause, you are
playing the victim. You yourself might not realize it.
Be Aware Of Your Brain Chemistry
Be aware of your brain chemistry. It is not same as everyone else's . Be
aware of your temperament. Your brain chemistry can be such that you
don't register things quickly or the opposite. There are things you can
do to change that.
Reading Is Not Learning
Do not mistake reading for understanding or real knowledge. Only
because you read something does not mean, you really understand the
meaning or aware of it all the time.
Be Careful OF What You Read
Be careful about the books you read because most prominent books are
programming of the subconscious and addicting. They are written to
trigger emotions, excitement, lust, greed. They are often depicting
heroes which your subconscious mind tries to emulate which makes you a
megalomaniac. Also, the books stay in your subconscious and they energy
always stay with you. Reading books rewires your brain.
Women Wouldn't Accept This
Many women wouldn't express it if they are impressed with you because it might make her look like easy going.
Be Careful Of This Type
He who can hurt others, can hurt you. He who hurt you once, can hurt you later. Be Observant. We often don't take notice when people harm or treat us badly and think they are not going to harm or hurt us later. Very wrong.
When You Hear Something It Is Partial
Always remember people are always saying there version of the event for
personal gain. Always think the version you are hearing is partially
true for most people canNOT speak accurately.
There Is No Such Thing As Common Sense
Commons sense is based on everyday experience and all norms, beliefs.
That does not mean common sense is accurate. It is also relative. When
we say to someone you don't have common sense that is actually biased.
You Behave Like What You Have Experienced Before In Life
Precedence shapes your reality and your perception of it and your behavior.
They Might Be Setting You Up
If a man's wife is talking to you and the man is okay with it, they are setting you up for something.
Don't Talk Her If She Doesn't Respond
Pretty often women would avoid a guy if he talks to her in public, sometimes to make it look like that she is not interested or that the guy is flirting with her. Don't give her the chance. If she does't talk at once, don't continue talking to her, even if you are joking. Make it look spontaneous.
What Does It Mean If You Don't Like That Your Partner Is Being Possessive
If your partner is possessive and it bothers you, that means your
partner is not the one. Or your partner has qualities that you don't
like. End it or ask your partner to work on those.
Little Bit Of Flirting Can Create Deep Connection
Little bit of flirting can connect two peoples body and mind because of
hormones, because we are wired to be connected to certain type. Be aware of this.
Religions Are Opiates
Religion are opiates. That is why lots of people believe in it. Doing the the rituals release the happy hormones.
When You Might Seem Possessive
If your partner is socially less powerful than you are, jealousy may
seem as possessiveness to your partner, especially if you yell at your
partner when your partner is not really flirting but just being social.
Try telling your partner that you like/love him/her nicely. It won't
seem as possessiveness.
What Happens When You Can't Talk Back In Response To A Negative Feedback
When you can't do anything about a negative feedback from someone because he has more power than you, your
unconscious mind automatically sends signal to you saying your social
value has been lowered. Next time, when you see that person you will
behave like you have lower value than him automatically unconsciously.
People Can't Stop Criticizing
Most people cannot stop criticizing others. When they can't find
something to criticize, they make up something or explain people's
action in a distorted way that end up in criticism. I say this because sometimes it borders in harassment.
When You Feel Small In Public
When you feel small in public it shows in your body language because our body get signals from other people on an unconscious level. Social status shows in your body language.
Don't Let Women Be Indirect
Don't get emotional or sexual with a girl until she makes a direct
approach. Don't fall for any girl who is indirect. Be aware that sexual
attraction can trigger emotional attraction because sex is directly
involved with your ego, it is ego validation. It is also acceptance from
the opposite sex. When you are flirting with a girl and if you are
attracted with her, ask yourself if it is going to hurt if she rejects
you. If yes, then you are already emotionally involved. Then, undo the
emotional feelings until she makes your relationship official.
Otherwise, if she continues to be indirect with you and if she rejects
because something is wrong, you are going to get hurt. This "something
going wrong" happens all the time. Usually if a girl is indirect, I tell her to stop. Always remember, indirect flirtation is a manipulation.
The Angry Person Doesn't Realize
The angry person doesn't realize he's angry because it is justified in the person's mind.
You Automatically Feel Guilty Around Powerful People
If an authority figure says you are wrong then you accept you are wrong it even if you are not wrong. It is a fear response.
You Better Believe It
Do not laugh after saying you are a ladies' man. That means you don't
believe it yourself. Don't say that at all, or don't laugh after saying
it. If you don't laugh, It will become your self fulfilling prophecy in
a good way because it will program your subconscious mind.
Do Not Think You Feel Bad
Do not give yourself the excuse that you feel bad and do not use that
to excuse yourself from doing what you are supposed to do because it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Unless you have some kinda medical problem, depression, be aware of this.
Be Aware Of Your Body Language
Your body language gives away how mature or immature you are. Women judge you based on that. You sort of have a vibe of your age, experience in your body.
Don't Feel Like A Loser
You might not realize you might feel like a loser if you don't get any.
It might not have anything to do with you. Don't feel bad. There are
lots of people who don't get any. There are too many variables. Sometimes odds are against you.
Don't Be Nice To Get Women To Bed
Don't be nice to women to sleep with her because it says you are only
nice because you have an agenda, it's too revealing and many men do this
so women can see right through this. This doesn't mean be mean to them either. You just have to be aware that when you are nice and it is out of place, it automatically tells women that you are doing it because you have an ulterior motive. It feels unnatural, at times it is annoying because people over do it. If you tell the same thing over and over to get sex, it is too revealing.
Do Not Shame Yourself
The man's ability to shame himself is so vast even after working all his life he thinks he hasn't achieved anything. Your worst critic is you.
Self Deception
Self deception is when you justify
not doing things and think it's okay. You sort of don't do anything in
particular and think it's okay to not go anywhere. In your mind
everything should be easier. Your mind sort of always wait for a better
situation Don't say later will be better.
Don't Be Reactive
You react positively or
negatively to the person you are interacting with depending on his/her
behavior. Train yourself not to be reactive if the person is negative.
Condition Yourself To Not To Be Aroused
Program yourself not to be
aroused every time you see a woman, most of us get aroused without
realizing. The reason being this energy might mess up your game by
reacting too quickly and ending doing or saying things that you don't
want to. Unless your game is top notch, don't let this happen.
Lying Is Automatic
Lying without realizing is a knee jerk reaction, a defense mechanism. Don't try to justify it.
Why Men Think Women Don't Like Sex
When men think women don't like sex they are projecting. Because they think they wouldn't like performing what they want women to perform to them, women don't like doing those things. Wrong, women like doing those things. Remember, different hormones running through the female body.
Friday, March 3, 2017
You Always Need A Guide In Life
I write this quote because we always need teacher or guide in life:"There is a teaching current in the world today to the effect that a man doesn't need a teacher, that a man should be sufficient unto himself, that he has it within him to find his own path, that is he has it within him to find his own path; and this is said to be a manly course of life. Verily so it is: truth abides within in fullness. But why haven't you found the path? Why aren't you what you claim you can be? For the simple reason that yoi don't know how to be it and because you have not been taught. You need a teacher".---G De Purucker.
Wednesday, March 1, 2017
95 Percent People Are Scientifically Illiterate
Surveys suggest that 95 percent of Americans are scientifically
illiterate...the figure is similar in most countries. I got this info
from Carl Sagan's book "The Demon-Haunted World",
সব মানুষই লম্পট
সব মানুষই সারাদিন কুকুরের মত লালায়িত থাকেন...সারাদিন যৌন চিন্তা
করেন...সারাদিন কোন না কোন রকম যৌনাচারে প্রকাশ্যে কিংবা আড়ালে লিপ্ত
থাকেন...সারাদিন যৌনতা নিয়ে কথা বলেন...মোবাইলে,ল্যাপটপে, ট্যাবলেটে পর্ণো
দেখেন...সারাদিন পছন্দের কাউকে নিয়ে যৌন চিন্তা করেন..অনেকেই.সেক্স use
করে সুবিধা আদায় করেন...যারা সুকৌশলে, মিথ্যের আশ্রয় নিয়ে এঐ ব্যাপারগুলো
লুকিয়ে রাখতে পারেন, তারা সমাজে "ভাল মানুষ", সমাদৃত। কিন্ত যে মানুষটি সৎ
ভাবে স্বীকার করার সাহস রাখেন তার মধ্যে পশু প্রবৃতি আছে, যে তার যৌন
অবচেতন প্রক্রিয়া সম্পর্কে সচেতন, তাকে সমাজ হেয় করে। সততার জন্য তাকে চরম্
মূল্য দিতে হয়। সমাজ তাকে বিচ্ছিন্ন করে ফেলে। মানুষ কবে বুঝবে তার যৌনতার
উপর তার সম্পূর্ণ নিয়ণ্ত্রণ নেই, তার অবচেতন মন তার যৌনতা নিয়ণ্ত্রণ করে
? Sigmund Freud সাহেব বলেছেন, মানুষ সচেতন এবং অবচেতন ভাবে যা করে, তার
সব দুটো উদ্দশ্য থাকে। একটি যৌনতা, অন্যটি অন্যের মাঝে বরেণ্য হওয়ার
চেষ্টা।
Women Your Men Are Not Yelling
By nature, the man has bigger/louder vocal chord than the woman.So, even
when he talks in his normal voice, it sounds loud to the woman. As a
result, she thinks he's yelling even when he's talking in his normal
voice. Estrogen is responsible for the lower voice in the woman.
Where Your Partner Might Cheat On You Most Of The Time
Aside from the internet and the bar scene, most people who cheat they
meet their partner at work or a place of personal interest/hobby. This is what the research show, most of them meet at these places.
It Is Not His Fault
It's not the man's fault that he's promiscuous, he's never been told or
taught not to be. He doesn't think being promiscuous is wrong. He's
actually admired for his sexual conquest. So, you can't really blame him
for being promiscuous. He is conditioned.
It Is Not Fair
When men wants you to perform different kinds of sexual activities, they
don't do it to objectify women. They do it because they feel those in
their bodies, unconsciously. So, it is not really fair to blame men for
"objectifying" women.
Propaganda Doesn't Only Come From The Media
One of my acquaintances was asked in a gathering, "Why you don't pray
and call the almighty creator?", insinuating that he is a non-believer.
He quipped "He is me, why would I call him?" Boy, did that raise some
brows! The people were stunned and felt their religious view was
desecrated. They shunned him from then on. This reaction shows anybody
who goes against the herd, in this case jokes about going against the
herd, is automatically ostracized. This knee-jerk reaction doesn't happen
only when it comes to religion, it happens everywhere else in life. All
you have to do is say something that goes against the mainstream. If
you can condition the masses into thinking something is "right", they
think anybody who thinks anything different is crazy. Propaganda does
not only come from the media, it also comes from the very people you
hang out with, friends, family members, coworkers, etc. They force you
to believe what they believe by ridiculing your views. Their closed mind
does not only limit your freedom of expression, it also permeates their
long held beliefs in the psyche of others. And when their thinking is
forced upon others, they don't think they are desecrating the thinking
of the ones that go against the herd.
People Are Always Saying Something Profound
People are always saying something profound, but we fail to realize it
because they can't enunciate well or because of our preconceived notion
we dismiss it automatically. Years later it registers in our mind what
seems "crazy" in the beginning. So, listen to people even if their talk
seem crazy, even if they don't make sense. Ask them to elaborate. Sometimes I wish I had listen to things people said earlier in life which made sense years later.
এভাবে মানুষকে হেয় করা ঠিক নয়
মানুষকে তৈরিই করা হয়েছে বিপরীত লিঙ্গের মানুষের প্রতি আকৃষ্ট হওয়ার জন্য।
বিপরীত লিঙ্গের মানুষের সঙ্গ, ভালবাসা না পেলে মানুষের মনে শূন্যতা সৃষ্টি
হয়। মানুষকে জেনা করবে এই কথা বলে মিশতে না দেয়াটা, সামাজিক ভাবে হেয় করা,
বিব্রত করাটাই অপরাধ। দুজন প্রাপ্ত বয়স্ক নরনারী যদি একে আরেকজনকে পছন্দ
করে বিয়ে করতে চায়, তবে তাদরকে জেনাকারী বলে তাদের ব্যক্তিগত সম্পর্ক
সমাজের কাছে প্রকাশ করে প্রতিনিয়ত হেয় করাটাই অন্যায়। প্রায় সময় যদি বাবা
মা রাজি না থাকে এদের arranged marriage-এর শিকার হতে হয় যা তাদের মন
চিরজীবনের জন্য ভেঙ্গে দেয় সম্পর্ক বিচ্ছেদের কারণে।
Why You Might Be Angre All The Time
If you are mad all the time you have lots of unresolved issues.
Beware Of The Way You Appear
The way you talk, behave and your body language give away your social status.
Because People Don't Have The Answer Themselves
People just tell you what to do or that you have work hard but not how
to overcome the psychological issues that prevent you from doing ,
because they have no idea how to solve those themselves. This is not
scientific and keeps you stuck. Annoys you.
We Are All Tyrannical
Most of us don't change our
ways, yet we expect others to change there ways. Only the ones with
more muscle power win. We are all somewhat tyrannical
Sign OF Being A Tyrant
If you feel like everyone else is wrong and you harass them for it constantly, you are a tyrant.
Why He Might Leave You And Some Signs
If your criticism and accusation are always out of place, and your
partner always feel like he has to explain his action all the time, but you keep
doing it, that means you're controlling. If your partner feels like you
are always reading him wrong which is causing you to criticize and
accuse him, then he thinks you are wired to read your partner
wrong, you're not malleable, you are just that way . He is going to emotionally tune you out,
and alienate himself from you. Signs of this are: wanting to live in a
separate room, doing stuff by himself, not attending at family
gatherings, not going to out to do something fun with you, always
spending time in solitude because spending time with you would drain his
mental energy, etc.
Two Good Quotes
“Everything is energy and that's all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.” -Albert Einstein
“Alpha waves in the human brain are between 6 and 8 hertz. The wave frequency of the human cavity resonates between 6 and 8 hertz. All biological systems operate in the same frequency range. The human brain's alpha waves function in this range and the electrical resonance of the earth is between 6 and 8 hertz. Thus, our entire biological system – the brain and the earth itself – work on the same frequencies. If we can control that resonate system electronically, we can directly control the entire mental system of humankind.” -Nikola Tesla
“Everything is energy
and that's all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you
want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way.
This is not philosophy. This is physics.” -Albert Einstein/Bashar
(debatable)
“Alpha waves in the human brain are between 6 and 8 hertz. The wave
frequency of the human cavity resonates between 6 and 8 hertz. All
biological systems operate in the same frequency range. The human
brain's alpha waves function in this range and the electrical resonance
of the earth is between 6 and 8 hertz. Thus, our entire biological
system – the brain and the earth itself – work on the same frequencies.
If we can control that resonate system electronically, we can directly
control the entire mental system of humankind.” -Nikola Tesla Read More:
http://www.knowledgeoftoday.org/2012/02/illuminati-secret-hidden-from-masses.html“Everything is energy and that's all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.” -Albert Einstein/Bashar (debatable) “Alpha waves in the human brain are between 6 and 8 hertz. The wave frequency of the human cavity resonates between 6 and 8 hertz. All biological systems operate in the same frequency range. The human brain's alpha waves function in this range and the electrical resonance of the earth is between 6 and 8 hertz. Thus, our entire biological system – the brain and the earth itself – work on the same frequencies. If we can control that resonate system electronically, we can directly control the entire mental system of humankind.” -Nikola Tesla Read More
Your Mind Can't Accept New Reality
“Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth, because they don't want their illusions destroyed.” -Friedrich Nietzsche. Your mind automatically rejects things that are not mainstream.
“Sometimes people don't
want to hear the truth, because they don't want their illusions
destroyed.” -Friedrich Nietzsche Read More: http://www.knowledgeoftoday.org/2012/02/illuminati-secret-hidden-from-masses.html
What Really Is Approach Anxeity
Aside from your insecurity, approach anxiety is mainly fear of other people, because we are wired to conform to the needs of majority, people around us.
Why You Might Be Nervous Around People
If you are nervous around people, that might mean you are always disrespected by people. It might mean you have low social status
We Are All Lecherous
We are all lecherous. Some people get away with it because of their social status.Others, they get labeled and vilified because of their low status. If you deny publicly that you are not lecherous that actually means you are lecherous.
Why You Can't Speak Well In Public
If you can't speak well in public, that means you have low social status. We are wired to conform to majority. If others perceive you as a low status person, person you unconsciously believe it because our mind receives status signal from the way others treat you, automatically. It happens way below your conscious level. When people are put in place, they are forced to accept that place because of our wiring. Whoever engineered our mind, engineered it to follow the herd and it's leader, without us being totally aware of it. It is not accurate to say people have the herd mentality, it is more like people are engineered to have a herd mentality and they can't undo it.
You Might Not Realize What You DO
The mind draws from a vast subconscious resource of everything experienced and learned, much more than the conscious self has a clue about.
Tuesday, February 28, 2017
Women Talking Pattern, Men Talking Pattern
Excerpt from the book, "Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps":
"The multi-tracking ability [of talking] is frustrating for a man as
the male brain is mono-tracked and can only handle one subject at a
time. When a group of women are multi-tracking several subjects, men can
become completely dazed and confused." Basically, this means that the
man brain is not wired to jump from topic to topic, but the woman brain
is. When women talk and jump from topic to topic and go to another topic
suddenly, it frustrates men.
We Don't Approach Because We Sex Shame Ourselves And The Society Also Sex Shames Us
Most of the time when we don't make our move, it's usually because we fear society's sex shaming. We really don't want to be seen as the person who's making the sexual advance. So, don't try to make it look like only the member of the other sex, aka "the opposite sex"(I don't believe in the term "opposite sex", male and female are not "opposite"), is making the advance when you are equally responsible. If you do that, you are the one really doing the sex shaming to save yourself from being shamed. Your only way of looking good is to blame preemptively. Remember, both sides are always sex shamed. Why broach these matters? Because we do those unconsciously without realizing, both sex shaming and not making the move.
This really means we don't to want accept ourselves that we are attracted to random people because doing so would make us liable for making the move. Also, it would make us aware of the fact we are promiscuous, and we don't want to accept that we are, because we are programmed to think sex is a sinful act. In essence, we are sex shaming ourselves because we are unconsciously forced to conform, because we think sex is sin. Why should we learn to accept the fact that we are promiscuous by nature? Because repressing sex actually makes you want it more and harms you spiritually. Because sex is considered a sin, every time we make the move, we think we are doing something sinful. So, when we think it's a sin, we continue to sex shame ourselves. This manifests in hesitation and stopping ourselves every time we want to make the move, shows up in our body language. Also, we approach indirectly because approaching directly would mean we are doing something sinful overtly. If it's a sin, we continue to sex shame ourselves and others.
Next time, someone makes the move on you overcoming the social pressure, appreciate the effort, instead of sex shaming and making it look like only the person is initiating it.
Rude Fact From The Kind Of Comedy And Freud
People didn't believe when I said, humor shows your social status. So, now, I present proof by quoting two famous people.
"What we are often doing with humor is comparing ourselves with others
we consider inferior by ridiculing their intelligence, their social
standing, and their physical infirmities."---Melvin Helitzer, from his book "Comedy Writing Secrets".
Also From Freud: "A good bit of humor is oriented to maintaining the status quo by
ridiculing deviant social behavior and reassuring the majority that
their way of life is proper...it is used as a weapon of the 'ins'
against the 'outs'.'
Gods Hate Knowledge The Knowledge Seeker
"Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge
is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods."---Albert Einstein.
Strange But True
Strange but true: every time you see or hear something your mind is
comparing the situation with something you've experienced before or what
it's programmed with... your mind is not able to read what is actually
happening. We only understand fifty percent of what we hear or see. Everything else gets "filtered". We don't read the incidents as they are at the moment we perceive the.
মানুষ হইতে সাবধান
প্রায় দেখি অনেক বাড়িতে লিখা থাকে "কুকুর হইতে সাবধান"...কিন্তু কোথাও
দেখিনা "মানুষ হইতে সাবধান"...ভাবখানা এমন মানুষ মানুষের কোন ক্ষতি করতে
পারেনা....
Don't Be Patriotic
"You'll never have a quiet world till you knock the patriotism out of the human race."---George Bernard Shaw
Inquiring Mind Wants To Know
I read this somewhere:The Chinese government discovered thousands years old Sanskrit documents
in Tibet and sent them to the University of Chandrigarh in India for
translation...they were found to contain the knowledge to build
interstellar spaceships, according to the University's Dr Ruth
Reyna...Dr Reyna revealed that these ships were known as "Astras" and it
was claimed they could fly to any planet...the question is how the
ancients knew how to built spaceships?
Be Aware Of The Halo Effect
The halo effect is a cognitive bias whereby the perception of one trait
(i.e. a characteristic of a person or object) is influenced by the
perception of another trait (or several traits) of that person or
object. An example would be judging a good-looking person as more
intelligent. I mention this because most people think of halo effect in terms of looks. That is not the case. A person might just believe another person more just because of his age.
Listen To What Doesn't Make Sense, What Your Mind Is Avoiding
When people tell you something or when you read something, don't only
focus on the stuff that are making sense or the ones that sound
good...focus on the stuff that are not making sense or the ones that
don't sound good...examine those...that way you expand your horizon....usually, the stuff that you are avoiding are the ones that turns in to profound realization years later.
How To Know Where The Next Sacred Place Going To Be
If the Great Pyramid is taken to be the center of the 0 degree meridian,
the longitude and latitude locations of the world's sacred sites fit
together in neat geometrical patterns...this means you could predict
where the next sacred place would be by knowing the longitude or
latitude pattern. Now, all I have to do is find out the said pattern.
Thinking Is The Hardest Thing
"Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is the probable reason
why so few engage in it."---Henry Ford
How Long Before Thoughts Get Creating Until You Become Aware Of Them
Scientists at the Max Planck Institute for Human Cognitive and Brain
Sciences reveal that our decisions are made 7 seconds before we become
aware of them...this only means that our decisions are made on an
unconscious level and we are not completely aware of our decisions....
People Are Not Lazy Because They Want To Be
The tendency to avoid pain or uncomfortable things is deeply rooted in
our mind biologically...so when people think of solving problems or try
to do something the pain or discomfort associated with the problems
come to their mind automatically, so they avoid the problems without
realizing...not because they are lazy....
We Don't Always Laugh Because Stuff Is Funny
Most of the time when people laugh, smile, the reason is not because
there is something funny...it is because they are trying to communicate
or connect with people near them...or because they are fawning.
A Great About Being Vilified
Some sage said after being ridiculed and harassed too much:"To all those who have tried to stop me communicating some information
and those who continue to try to undermine me and what I do for their
own malevolent reasons: when, at some point, you wake up, you will be
horrified at what you've done." I, too, feel like I have been harassed too much, too long for speaking my mind from everyday people.
Sigmund Freud's Quote About The Unconscious Mind
:An interesting Sigmund Freud quote that I just read which I am compelled
to share with you guys: "The unconscious of one human being can react
upon that of another without passing through the conscious." This might mean, we can connect to another person's mind without being aware of it. Perhaps he was talking about the collective unconscious?
Saturday, February 25, 2017
Don't Feel Like You Always Have To Be Right
If you feel like you always have to be right, that means you are insecure. This messes up your relationship.
Love Does Not Equal Compatibilty
If you love someone or have strong feelings for someone that doesn't always mean you are compatible to live together. The chemistry might still not be right. That doesn't mean you guys share the same dreams.
Don't Feel Small
You are not supposed to know everything. Don't feel small for not knowing something or making a gaffe. I mention this because we were created to gather information. Unconsciously we feel "low" if we don't know something.
Don't Try To Appear Too Perfect When Dating
If you ask a man, what do you do, he's going to say he's a "doctor" even if he's a cab driver, to save his face. When we are faced with situation like that we all try to present ourselves in a way that is "perfect" in the society's eye. In the beginning, everything is magical, both are nice to each other. Then little by little Dr. Jekyll turns into Mr. Hyde and your dreams are broken. But what if the person tells that he he drives cab and still gets the girl? They wouldn't be heartbroken. The lesson, before you go into a relationship don't try to appear "perfect". Also you can stop asking the person questions that force him/her to lie.To do this you might want avoid saying things like:
1. I don't do that on a first date.
2. I am a one woman man.
3. I can fuck non stop for the whole night.
4. I am a virgin( for women).
5. I don't watch porn.
6. I am not a bar going person.
Things like that. When a person try to appear too perfect and he/she sounds too perfect, it's not true. They don't think it's manipulation because the society expect us to be perfect and they don't realize they are doing it.They forget the society also expect us to be honest. Little bit of white lies are ok. Trust me there are people who don't try to appear perfect and still date more and not manipulate people.
Create Your Own "Paradise On Earth"
Most people want a rich, educated person to save them from their miserable life...but they themselves don't want to do anything...they want their partner to give them paradise on earth without giving anything in return....if you learn the fact that nobody will ever give you anything and work on your life and able to build your own paradise, you won't need anyone else...but then everyone would be gravitated to you because they have nothing to lose by being with you...always think, if a person comes to your life what he is gaining other than sex...if there is nothing else, there is nothing else to build the paradise with...and then you both are financial burden to each other...then the relationship fizzles out....
Don't Do This In Public
Don't put yourself down in public
People Are Not Smart Or Dumb
People are not smart or dumb. It's situational and depends on their background, what information they have in their mind. For example, a doctor can't fix a car and an automobile engineer can't fix an ill person.
What Does It Mean If You Don't Want To Get Married
If you don't want to get married, that might mean you feel marriage is going to hamper your dream(s).
How You Feel In A Relationship Might Also Depend On Your Brain Chemistry
How You Feel In A Relationship Might Also Depend On Your Brain Chemistry.
Jealousy Might Be A Compliment
When your lover don't let you talk to another person of your sex, that is actually a compliment, many times, your loves thinks you are cute or good looking enough to be stolen by others.
It's All An Act
When men approach, women act annoyed, angered, but deep down inside they love and wait for it. To prove this all you have to do is not approach and see their reaction.
Beliefs Have Been Inculcated In You
Please Remember different beliefs have been inculcated in you about sex and the opposite sex either by society or your parents or by yourself. It is going to take a long time to change your beliefs. You don't even realize the things you do unconsciously. You automatically play your gender role or how you have been indoctrinated.
Your Partner Might Be Scared Of You
If you have high social status that might cause your partner to be scared of you
Your Social Status Is Everything
How well you do in your relationship depends on your social status. You are as good as your reference group. This is more important than being rich. So, make your social circle bigger.
Do Not Look At Nude Imageries
Don't watch porn, nude images, semi nude women. Be conscious about this.
The Poor Person Can't Even Get Sympathy For Not Having A Sex Life
People make fun of a man who don't get laid, but he's the victim.
Your Biggest Enemy
Your biggest enemy is discontentedness because our mind is always wanting and wanting causing us to think we never have enough. It can make you clinically depressed, can cause anxiety disorder and as a result it can make you numb. Always be contented. It always keeps you on tenterhooks. Keep reminding yourself you have everything you need.
Don't Be Running Your Mouth Uncontrollably
When you say things they comes out automatically with out fitting with the topics presented. Prepare your speech and practice speaking slowly.
Hypersexuality
Hypersexuality can be linked to bipolar disorder or severe depression. This means a person might not have enough sexual control if he/she has either one. This is true for both men and women. Symptoms of hypersexuality to be added in the future.
Women Fake Cry All The Time
Women shed crocodile tears all the time. They do this to in public. In addition they throw fakev temper tantrum in public all the time.
Your Self Image And Body Language Equals Your Stand In The Society
How you behave in public depends on how people perceive you and treat you. There's a saying, "people behave like the way other people expect them to behave". Your body language, confidence and self image depend on how other treat you and your social status.
Your Reality Is Only True For You
What happens to you become your reality, shape your paradigm. What becomes your paradigm keeps happening to you.
Lots Of People Are Walking Around With The Messiah Syndrome
We are taught since childhood to be a hero, to emulate a hero. Our movies, novels, religious texts, stories and people all depict heroes...we respect heroes more...we are taught be the best...we are also constantly told "You can be anything you want to be"...this can cause one to be a megalomaniac...this can cause one to want to be a messiah...as a matter of fact, lots of people are walking around with the messiah syndrome. These people are walking around thinking that they are savior of the world.
Why You Might Be Polygamist
Other than biological factors, you might be polygamist because constant sexual imageries and videos in the media, books and sex being everywhere. I say this so that you can be aware of this.
Many Women Won't Admit It
Many women won't admit that you are good in bed because it would make her look like a slut or easy going.
Waiting For This Day
For once, I would like to live without being faulted, blamed, without feeling guilty or without being judged.
Don't Harass Men To Make Yourself Look Innocent
Ladies, do not harass men to make it look like that you are not a slut because most men also want to keep their debauchery secret, they want to help you keep yours secret. What's not okay is making it look like they are the only one interested. They feel betrayed. You just have to trust them. Men too feel ashamed for showing interest around other men and feel like they are being judged . What more is that they feel like they are scared of being beaten. So, this little incident actually scars them for life even if this seem "small" matter to you.
Most People Can't Dress Exactly As They Like
Most people can't dress up exactly the way they want because the market doesn't have clothes like their imagination and readymade clothes never fit perfectly. Even when it is tailor made. I say this because it lowers your confidence level without you being aware of it.
Why The Man Might Resent You
Because the man has to pay to be with you, to keep you by him he thinks he is not attractive enough without the money. So, he lose confidence and start to resent you. So, say nice things to him about his look and competency if you feel he resents you.
What A Man Think A True Woman Lover Is
A true lover wouldn't punish her lover by socially harassing him.
Where Does Low Self Esteem Come From
Low self-esteem comes from leading a bad life. You can't just will it away over night. You have to lead a good life and make enough good things happen to give you the positive experiences needed to develop your self esteem.
You Are Actually Never Free
You are actually never free in the society because your action must not go against the people. Otherwise, you are ostracized or labeled as "crazy". Your decision is influenced by other people's judgement, it doesn't matter if they are wrong or right.
Why Women Believe They Are Whores
Unfortunately, if people tell you enough times that you are a whore or lecherous, you start to believe it yourself without actually doing anything sexual. You become wary of how you behave with the opposite sex...you always think he might think your act is sexual even though it is not.
Men Be Carefule
Be careful about women who are mean to you in public but nice to you covertly. These type of women are usually manipulative. Any women women who flirts with you secretly, is manipulative.
The Incident That Made Me Wary Of Pregnant Women
One day one very pretty girl came on to me... I liked her look...the way she talked to me....couple of days later she slides in to the conversation that she's pregnant with her husband and wanting divorce from him and she's awaiting for him to pay for filing of the divorced...I felt manipulated, betrayed...I was hurt...because I felt like she only wanted me because she needed financial assistant with the baby...so I stopped talking to her...and then she harassed me for not talking to her...I share this to show that there are women who would do this to get you to take care of the baby.
You Deal With A Conditioned Being
When you meet someone to have relationship you just don't deal with that person in front of you, you deal with a person who's been indoctrinated for years to behave in a certain way with you. If you perceive the conditioning to go against you, it is very hard for you to undo it. Here will be a list of things for men and women that condition men and women in this society.
When Women Would Travel For You
If you have enough preselection and enough social power women would travel for you
How Much Sex Shamed You Are Depends On Your Status
We are all lecherous. Some people get away with it because of their social status.Others, they get labeled and vilified because of their low status.The people who sex shame others, they are usually projecting.
Sunday, January 29, 2017
Biggest Mistake Of Life
The biggest mistake of life is chasing many dreams at once...pursue only one long term goal in a reasonable time frame...then you can achieve more ...and you would have more satisfaction and better mental frame of reference ....
Energy Consumption Of Our Brain
Little known fact, 25% of energy (electricity) produced by our body is used by our brain even though it is only 3-4 lbs.Also, if you concentrate on doing something hard like calculus, solving a hard puzzle you lose the most energy which is used by the brain...at that state you lose as much energy as when you run the fastest...that is why we get tired doing hard mental work.
I point this out because, the people who do mental work, knowledge workers---scientists, doctors, chemists, programmers-- they are actually working harder...that is why they always look weary/fatigued, but people think they do less work even though their brain uses more energy.
Tuesday, January 10, 2017
Women Admire You Secretly
Many women wouldn't express it if they are impressed with you because it might make them look they are easy going.
You Might Be Playing The Victim In Your Relationship
When arguing over an issue with your partner, if you are blaming your partner and you have to make up stuff to justify your cause, you are playing the victim. You might not realize it.
Say 'Hi' Promptly
If a women looks at you like she wants you be prepared to say "hi" because if you get enough positive responses it will become your reality.
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