Don't get emotional or sexual with a girl until she makes a direct
approach. Don't fall for any girl who is indirect. Be aware that sexual
attraction can trigger emotional attraction because sex is directly
involved with your ego, it is ego validation. It is also acceptance from
the opposite sex. When you are flirting with a girl and if you are
attracted with her, ask yourself if it is going to hurt if she rejects
you. If yes, then you are already emotionally involved. Then, undo the
emotional feelings until she makes your relationship official.
Otherwise, if she continues to be indirect with you and if she rejects
because something is wrong, you are going to get hurt. This "something
going wrong" happens all the time. Usually if a girl is indirect, I tell her to stop. Always remember, indirect flirtation is a manipulation.
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