Learn To Get Organized, Men

Most men are conditioned to not to organize their surrounding because they are trained to do "outside work". Traditionally, women are trained to do this. It becomes a men and women thing. While men thinking is very linear, organized and consecutive, they can't get organized. This becomes a problem when women organize for them because women can find stuff placed in random fashion which is still "organized" in women's mind but not in men's mind. In women's mind what's wrong with displacing stuff left by men, they are all their, I can find  it, so can men". Unfortunately, it makes men nervous. Just  keep in mind, women can work in chaos, men can't. Think it this way, a women can take care of 3 or four babies while cooking. In contrast, men brain freezes in this situation. Once, I was working in a coat check. They put a newbie with me. She kept re-organizing things--- coat, bags, shoes and umbrellas---in her own way, replacing them in her own way. This made me crazy. I couldn't get her to understand, it would be very hard for me to find all the stuff. In her mind she was "organizing" things. So, while men are disorganized through inculcation, it becomes a further problem when women organize for them. To make matter worse, women want to use this to make it look like they are doing "something" for men. Later, they get to say, "I cook and clean for you, for what?"