Lot of men, when they hear that some other guy has a girlfriend or some girl is crazy for the guy, they automatically say, "IS she 'fat'?" or "IS she 'unattractive'?" or something to that sort. What they are doing is projecting. Only because they don't believe that they can have a pretty girl or they can't have a girlfriend that is pretty, they automatically assume the guy can't also have a pretty girlfriend. Even if it is true, what they don't realize is that it makes the guy feel bad because it makes him feel like he is not good enough to have a pretty girl. It is also mean. So, guys be aware how you respond when you hear when someone says he's got a woman. All it matters is that it made the guy happy. It is a form of jealousy. It happens on an unconscious level. Lot of women also do it without realizing that they are implying the guy is not good enough.
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