Epigram

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

Women Talking Pattern, Men Talking Pattern

Excerpt from the book, "Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps": "The multi-tracking ability [of talking] is frustrating for a man as the male brain is mono-tracked and can only handle one subject at a time. When a group of women are multi-tracking several subjects, men can become completely dazed and confused." Basically, this means that the man brain is not wired to jump from topic to topic, but the woman brain is. When women talk and jump from topic to topic and go to another topic suddenly, it frustrates men.

We Don't Approach Because We Sex Shame Ourselves And The Society Also Sex Shames Us

Most of the time when we don't make our move, it's usually because we fear society's sex shaming. We really don't want to be seen as the person who's making the sexual advance. So, don't try to make it look like only the member of the other sex, aka "the opposite sex"(I don't believe in the term "opposite sex", male and female are not "opposite"), is making the advance when you are equally responsible. If you do that, you are the one really doing the sex shaming to save yourself from being shamed. Your only way of looking good is to blame preemptively. Remember, both sides are always sex shamed. Why broach these matters? Because we do those unconsciously without realizing, both sex shaming and not making the move.

This really means we don't to want accept ourselves that we are attracted to random people because doing so would make us liable for making the move. Also, it would make us aware of the fact we are promiscuous, and we don't want to accept that we are, because we are programmed to think sex is a sinful act. In essence, we are sex shaming ourselves because we are unconsciously forced to conform, because we think sex is sin. Why should we learn to accept the fact that we are promiscuous by nature? Because repressing sex actually makes you want it more and harms you spiritually. Because sex is considered a sin, every time we make the move, we think we are doing something sinful. So, when we think it's a sin, we continue to sex shame ourselves. This manifests in hesitation and stopping ourselves every time we want to make the move, shows up in our body language. Also, we approach indirectly because approaching directly would mean we are doing something sinful overtly. If it's a sin, we continue to sex shame ourselves and others.

Next time, someone makes the move on you overcoming the social pressure, appreciate the effort, instead of sex shaming and making it look like only the person is initiating it.

Rude Fact From The Kind Of Comedy And Freud

People didn't believe when I said, humor shows your social status. So, now, I present proof by quoting two famous people.

"What we are often doing with humor is comparing ourselves with others we consider inferior by ridiculing their intelligence, their social standing, and their physical infirmities."---Melvin Helitzer, from his book "Comedy Writing Secrets".

Also From Freud: "A good bit of humor is oriented to maintaining the status quo by ridiculing deviant social behavior and reassuring the majority that their way of life is proper...it is used as a weapon of the 'ins' against the 'outs'.'

Gods Hate Knowledge The Knowledge Seeker

"Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods."---Albert Einstein.

Strange But True

Strange but true: every time you see or hear something your mind is comparing the situation with something you've experienced before or what it's programmed with... your mind is not able to read what is actually happening. We only understand fifty percent of what we hear or see. Everything else gets "filtered". We don't read the incidents as they are at the moment we perceive the.

মানুষ হইতে সাবধান

প্রায় দেখি অনেক বাড়িতে লিখা থাকে "কুকুর হইতে সাবধান"...কিন্তু কোথাও দেখিনা "মানুষ হইতে সাবধান"...ভাবখানা এমন মানুষ মানুষের কোন ক্ষতি করতে পারেনা....

Don't Be Patriotic

"You'll never have a quiet world till you knock the patriotism out of the human race."---George Bernard Shaw

Inquiring Mind Wants To Know

I read this somewhere:The Chinese government discovered thousands years old Sanskrit documents in Tibet and sent them to the University of Chandrigarh in India for translation...they were found to contain the knowledge to build interstellar spaceships, according to the University's Dr Ruth Reyna...Dr Reyna revealed that these ships were known as "Astras" and it was claimed they could fly to any planet...the question is how the ancients knew how to built spaceships?

Be Aware Of The Halo Effect

The halo effect is a cognitive bias whereby the perception of one trait (i.e. a characteristic of a person or object) is influenced by the perception of another trait (or several traits) of that person or object. An example would be judging a good-looking person as more intelligent. I mention this because most people think of halo effect in terms of looks. That is not the case. A person might just believe another person more just because of his age.

Listen To What Doesn't Make Sense, What Your Mind Is Avoiding

When people tell you something or when you read something, don't only focus on the stuff that are making sense or the ones that sound good...focus on the stuff that are not making sense or the ones that don't sound good...examine those...that way you expand your horizon....usually, the stuff that you are avoiding are the ones that turns in to profound realization years later.

How To Know Where The Next Sacred Place Going To Be

If the Great Pyramid is taken to be the center of the 0 degree meridian, the longitude and latitude locations of the world's sacred sites fit together in neat geometrical patterns...this means you could predict where the next sacred place would be by knowing the longitude or latitude pattern. Now, all I have to do is find out the said pattern.

Thinking Is The Hardest Thing

"Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is the probable reason why so few engage in it."---Henry Ford

How Long Before Thoughts Get Creating Until You Become Aware Of Them

Scientists at the Max Planck Institute for Human Cognitive and Brain Sciences reveal that our decisions are made 7 seconds before we become aware of them...this only means that our decisions are made on an unconscious level and we are not completely aware of our decisions....

People Are Not Lazy Because They Want To Be

The tendency to avoid pain or uncomfortable things is deeply rooted in our mind biologically...so when people think of solving problems or try to do something the pain or discomfort associated with the problems come to their mind automatically, so they avoid the problems without realizing...not because they are lazy....

We Don't Always Laugh Because Stuff Is Funny

Most of the time when people laugh, smile, the reason is not because there is something funny...it is because they are trying to communicate or connect with people near them...or because they are fawning.

A Great About Being Vilified

Some sage said after being ridiculed and harassed too much:"To all those who have tried to stop me communicating some information and those who continue to try to undermine me and what I do for their own malevolent reasons: when, at some point, you wake up, you will be horrified at what you've done." I, too, feel like I have been harassed too much, too long for speaking my mind from everyday people.

Sigmund Freud's Quote About The Unconscious Mind

:An interesting Sigmund Freud quote that I just read which I am compelled to share with you guys: "The unconscious of one human being can react upon that of another without passing through the conscious." This might mean, we can connect to another person's mind without being aware of it. Perhaps he was talking about the collective unconscious?