When your partner looks at a member of opposite sex unconsciously, without realizing, the person should be forgiven ...both for men and women...but let your partner know RESPECTFULLY that you don't like it, not by yelling...do not make this an issue...it's human...don't use this to get upper hand when having an argument, do not use this to harass your partner in public...that makes you low. But remember men are more visual or wired differently. Plus, most men don't consider it cheating and find it austere when their partner ask them to not to look at other women. They think it's not a big deal to look at other women.
Here's the biggest problem with this though, if you get angered or annoyed by such little thing all the time, that actually means your are insecure or that there are reasons for your partner to leave you. People don't leave their partner by looking inadvertently. This also means you are a bit controlling if you constantly berate your partner about it, if you feel good doing it. If you constantly do it, it tells your partner you are controlling.
This doesn't mean I am condoning it when people do it consciously and keep doing it even after they are asked to not to do it.
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